So my situation is ...
Since leaving high school all I've really done is train for jobs. So, I went to college and learn how fix cars for 3 years, couldn't get a job doing that. Did a bunch of training to work in retail, couldn't get a job doing either. Did an apprenticeship as a chef, can't get a job in that. When I wasn't doing training or my apprenticeship, I was doing volunteer work ... it's been 10 years. I don't have a car, never been on holiday etc
EDIT: I would just like to add that I'm not a freeloader. When I had my apprenticeship I worked my fucking ass off. We had this thing called "summer school", people from different countries would come to our college and we had to serve them ... about 700 for breakfast, lunch and diner every day for 8 weeks and it happens once a year and I just finished this year.
At one point, in 2 days I worked 25 hours ... That's more than half my time spent working and that doesn't include the 40 minute ride to and 40 minutes from work. The two other chefs only cooked and wiped down their area but I cooked, wiped down, washed pots and pans, helped the servers to serve and do everything they did (wash lunch trays, prepare salad, wipe tables, collect deliveries, brush, mop the works!) ... I even did jobs that are usually contracted out! I emptied the fryers, I scraped about 6 months worth of burnt on grease/fat off a griddle, took vents down, cleaned ovens.
So I'm kind of in the process of starting a business with my friend, a gaming cafe ... I've been gaming since before I could hold a controller (demanding my mum to complete Sonic again!) and I can use my catering skills to provide the cafe bit. Even did a course on "how to start your own business", got a certificate and everything.
Problem is my friend is hedonist, which makes me nervous about going into a partnership with him. He drinks a lot, takes stuff this sites guidelines wont allow me to talk about. Doesn't exactly sound like a great business partner but he is literally my only friend ... I am not a people person and large groups or social circles are just nightmares for me. Thing is, I can't run the front AND back but hiring somebody to run the front is a whole world of complications and expenses!
I recently watched this girl on youtube, chelsealifts. She's a 22 year old model/multi business owner/youtuber/fitness coach, I think she also said she had stocks and shit ... oh and she owns about ?100,000 worth of car! A lotus evora s and an BMW M6.
I'm 27 who hasn't even started in life and she is 5 years my junior and KILLING it! It just reminds me of the advice hang around successful people or like "if you're the smartest person in the room, you're in the wrong room". I want to surround myself with successful people, so they give me advice etc but instead I am stuck with this dude who is a hedonist ... "I want fun right now, fuck tomorrow 'cos I'm getting drunk of my face!" but I want to be the one driving a fucking lotus!
Should I just try and start this business Han Solo or try and kick this habitual hedonist into touch or just get a regular job like everyone else or what?
Since leaving high school all I've really done is train for jobs. So, I went to college and learn how fix cars for 3 years, couldn't get a job doing that. Did a bunch of training to work in retail, couldn't get a job doing either. Did an apprenticeship as a chef, can't get a job in that. When I wasn't doing training or my apprenticeship, I was doing volunteer work ... it's been 10 years. I don't have a car, never been on holiday etc
EDIT: I would just like to add that I'm not a freeloader. When I had my apprenticeship I worked my fucking ass off. We had this thing called "summer school", people from different countries would come to our college and we had to serve them ... about 700 for breakfast, lunch and diner every day for 8 weeks and it happens once a year and I just finished this year.
At one point, in 2 days I worked 25 hours ... That's more than half my time spent working and that doesn't include the 40 minute ride to and 40 minutes from work. The two other chefs only cooked and wiped down their area but I cooked, wiped down, washed pots and pans, helped the servers to serve and do everything they did (wash lunch trays, prepare salad, wipe tables, collect deliveries, brush, mop the works!) ... I even did jobs that are usually contracted out! I emptied the fryers, I scraped about 6 months worth of burnt on grease/fat off a griddle, took vents down, cleaned ovens.
So I'm kind of in the process of starting a business with my friend, a gaming cafe ... I've been gaming since before I could hold a controller (demanding my mum to complete Sonic again!) and I can use my catering skills to provide the cafe bit. Even did a course on "how to start your own business", got a certificate and everything.
Problem is my friend is hedonist, which makes me nervous about going into a partnership with him. He drinks a lot, takes stuff this sites guidelines wont allow me to talk about. Doesn't exactly sound like a great business partner but he is literally my only friend ... I am not a people person and large groups or social circles are just nightmares for me. Thing is, I can't run the front AND back but hiring somebody to run the front is a whole world of complications and expenses!
I recently watched this girl on youtube, chelsealifts. She's a 22 year old model/multi business owner/youtuber/fitness coach, I think she also said she had stocks and shit ... oh and she owns about ?100,000 worth of car! A lotus evora s and an BMW M6.
I'm 27 who hasn't even started in life and she is 5 years my junior and KILLING it! It just reminds me of the advice hang around successful people or like "if you're the smartest person in the room, you're in the wrong room". I want to surround myself with successful people, so they give me advice etc but instead I am stuck with this dude who is a hedonist ... "I want fun right now, fuck tomorrow 'cos I'm getting drunk of my face!" but I want to be the one driving a fucking lotus!
Should I just try and start this business Han Solo or try and kick this habitual hedonist into touch or just get a regular job like everyone else or what?