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Sharkeyboi

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Illicate substances. Marijuana, cocaine, acid, whatever you think you need to be a more interesting person. I believe the following to be true: If you need to drink or do drugs to have a good time you are most likely a REEEAAALLY boring person.

Now I like the occasional drink down the pub as much as the next guy and I enjoy smoking tobacco (or at least I feel like I do) but not out of any kind of necessity. I like to unwind and you reading this (provided you're not twelve) can probably relate or at least appreciate that this is part of the nightlife scene. But illigal drugs? Why? They're such an inconvenience.

Find a dealer, empty your wallet, sit in your apartment with the curtains drawn, roll up, light up aaand...
BAM! You are on the most accessable path towards ruining your life.

You might say alcohol can have the same effect and true enough it does. People get addicted, some more easily than others but at least there's the social side; a kind of safety net of peers and people who care about you to help you through. But if you're snorting a certain white substance (which could very easily have held previous accomodation up someone's ass) that 'social net' is gone or at least spread thinner amongst only the stupidest of your friends willing to follow you down the barb-ridden rabbit hole.

I'm saying this to people my age and younger (also I'm speaking from experience): We all get a little curious sometimes but keep in mind the sorts of people who, until they get help are looked down on in society, they were just curious once too.

Didn't mean to write a fully-fledged dad rant there but I do sense some younger type here on the Escapist forums and I thought I might write something helpful now that I've begun posting. Thoughts? Comments? Tales from the crypt?
 

McPulse

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I think very few people go and seek out a dealer. Far more likely peers or dealers find them and pressure them into taking free samples then the cycle of abuse begins.
 

nukethetuna

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Ok. I'll play video games and sleep for most of my college years, forsaking socializing and my responsibilities!

Oh wait...

Anything can "ruin your life" if you let it consume you. And if you consider your life ruined. If a person is satisfied and happy to "Find a dealer, empty your wallet, sit in your apartment with the curtains drawn, roll up, light up", would you consider them having ruined their life, if they have no regrets?
 

Ham_authority95

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You need to work on being less prejudiced about other peoples' lifestyles. Sure, their habits can ruin them, but it's not really your problem.


Just focus on your own life and don't associate with other people who do these substances if you can't stand it. Hey, maybe you can high-five people who have worked themselves out of drug addictions and become better people while you're at it...
 

Laser Priest

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Everything in moderation.

An excess of anything will ruin your life.

Too many kittens? You'll drown. In kittens.
 

LikeDustInTheWind

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Lighten up. There's not much wrong with SOME illegal drugs. (Weed being the drug I'm talking about if that isn't painfully obvious enough)
 

tjs09

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Sharkeyboi said:
You might say alcohol can have the same effect and true enough it does. People get addicted, some more easily than others but at least there's the social side; a kind of safety net of peers and people who care about you to help you through. But if you're snorting a certain white substance (which could very easily have held previous accomodation up someone's ass) that 'social net' is gone or at least spread thinner amongst only the stupidest of your friends willing to follow you down the barb-ridden rabbit hole.
True advice, but I doubt someone willing to snort crack/cocaine is going to stop and reevaluate because it was once in someone's bum. XD

Still, great advice.
 

NinjaDeathSlap

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I have only this to say...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PTiUQf8-vOE&feature=player_detailpage
 

Kakashi on crack

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Marijuana is completely legal here in Colorado and has a net of peers usually, as are most of the illegal drugs that my friend's smoke. While I don't personally smoke the stuff because my brain is wired so that I become paranoid if I smoke it, it's hilarious to hear some of the things my buds say when they're high. Most of them only smoke the stuff maybe once a month to unwind too.

Really for the most part only a few of them are any more deadly/socially threatening than tobacco and alcohol.


Ohh yeah, and my dad would be living much more comfortably if he didn't drink so often, which is ruining his life socially and financially, so I personally don't see the arguement or discussion value. The only real difference is where you go to smoke/drink/whatever, and the fact that the things you are ranting on are illegal.

If you'd like to have a considerate conversation that involves me not being a complete asshole, do your research first, please and thank you.
 

ryai458

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Sharkeyboi said:
Illicate substances. Marijuana, cocaine, acid, whatever you think you need to be a more interesting person. I believe the following to be true: If you need to drink or do drugs to have a good time you are most likely a REEEAAALLY boring person.

Now I like the occasional drink down the pub as much as the next guy and I enjoy smoking tobacco (or at least I feel like I do) but not out of any kind of necessity. I like to unwind and you reading this (provided you're not twelve) can probably relate or at least appreciate that this is part of the nightlife scene. But illigal drugs? Why? They're such an inconvenience.

Find a dealer, empty your wallet, sit in your apartment with the curtains drawn, roll up, light up aaand...
BAM! You are on the most accessable path towards ruining your life.

You might say alcohol can have the same effect and true enough it does. People get addicted, some more easily than others but at least there's the social side; a kind of safety net of peers and people who care about you to help you through. But if you're snorting a certain white substance (which could very easily have held previous accomodation up someone's ass) that 'social net' is gone or at least spread thinner amongst only the stupidest of your friends willing to follow you down the barb-ridden rabbit hole.

I'm saying this to people my age and younger (also I'm speaking from experience): We all get a little curious sometimes but keep in mind the sorts of people who, until they get help are looked down on in society, they were just curious once too.

Didn't mean to write a fully-fledged dad rant there but I do sense some younger type here on the Escapist forums and I thought I might write something helpful now that I've begun posting. Thoughts? Comments? Tales from the crypt?
If I may ask what prompted this thread?
 

SilentCom

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That Guy Who Phails said:
Take away the Law againts it and ..

Bam!

Every things fine.
Taking away the law against it will only affect the "safety net" the OP was talking about. The drugs are still addictive and can be very bad for the body and society. Seriously, if certain types of drugs became legal and people became addicted, they aren't going to be productive members of society. They're just going to get stoned/high/wasted or whatever instead.
 

Conn1496

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Sharkeyboi said:
Illicate substances. Marijuana, cocaine, acid, whatever you think you need to be a more interesting person. I believe the following to be true: If you need to drink or do drugs to have a good time you are most likely a REEEAAALLY boring person.
All I had to read was this... Then I felt better about myself... Ahhhh, how 'popular' people fail so.
 

AgentNein

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Sharkeyboi said:
As someone who doesn't do much aside from drinking and smoking (wait, I don't mean that's all I do, I mean it's all I do in terms of drugs), I have to say that drugs can be as social as drinking. And sometimes (I'm specifically talking about pot here) are actually less dangerous both physically and psychologically.

Legality and safety don't always go hand in hand.
 

Flaming Narwhal

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It's all about moderation. Of course you're a fuck up if all you do is drink and do drugs all the time.
But I also think that there's an illicit thrill to doing something illegal, like smoking crack or setting off car alarms, so maybe all the druggies are just thrill seekers without the stones to go skydiving or something.
 

Cat of Doom

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Sharkeyboi said:
Illicate substances. Marijuana, cocaine, acid, whatever you think you need to be a more interesting person. I believe the following to be true: If you need to drink or do drugs to have a good time you are most likely a REEEAAALLY boring person.

Now I like the occasional drink down the pub as much as the next guy and I enjoy smoking tobacco (or at least I feel like I do) but not out of any kind of necessity. I like to unwind and you reading this (provided you're not twelve) can probably relate or at least appreciate that this is part of the nightlife scene. But illigal drugs? Why? They're such an inconvenience.

Find a dealer, empty your wallet, sit in your apartment with the curtains drawn, roll up, light up aaand...
BAM! You are on the most accessable path towards ruining your life.

You might say alcohol can have the same effect and true enough it does. People get addicted, some more easily than others but at least there's the social side; a kind of safety net of peers and people who care about you to help you through. But if you're snorting a certain white substance (which could very easily have held previous accomodation up someone's ass) that 'social net' is gone or at least spread thinner amongst only the stupidest of your friends willing to follow you down the barb-ridden rabbit hole.

I'm saying this to people my age and younger (also I'm speaking from experience): We all get a little curious sometimes but keep in mind the sorts of people who, until they get help are looked down on in society, they were just curious once too.

Didn't mean to write a fully-fledged dad rant there but I do sense some younger type here on the Escapist forums and I thought I might write something helpful now that I've begun posting. Thoughts? Comments? Tales from the crypt?
Dont bother trying to explain why drugs are bad on a legalise drugs forum. Belive me I have tried.
 

OmniscientOstrich

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In other words:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VCDnR6Px-co

Yeah, I've managed to avoid illegal substances but that doesn't necessarily mean you won't be boring anyway. Never understood it, but guess that people just get off on the rush, the escapism and tranquility of slipping away from our dank, depressing existence (so not advocating it). Though, have alcohol for that purpose and it is perfectly suitable and in plentiful, legal supply.
 

Sharkeyboi

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The prompt for this thread was simply that I've begun posting on the Escapist forums, noticed a lovely little section marked "off topic" and thought to myself: Someone out there might make use of my thoughts on Illegal substances and while some will say it's not a big deal I don't think you can say it enough to the young people that the less bad habits you have the better off you'll be. That's the prompt: empathy for the pressures of childhood.
 

dogenzakaminion

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Who says drugs can't be a social activity? I've tried some..."stuff"...(very minor stuff) before and while I did it with my friend and it was fun, I've no need to try it again. At least now when my kids ask me about this stuff I can give and informed opinion.

EDIT: Whoa, that sounded like I was enforcing experimentation. Point was that you seem to be oversimplifying drugs and their affect on peoples life. I agree that some are worse than others, but everything in moderation, right?