I recently came back onto facebook after a 6 month hiatus. I needed to come back onto it for my job, and the reason I left was because I didn't really speak to anyone on there (despite numerous efforts for me to try to talk to different people on my friends list).
When I came back on, 6 months later I don't know why I was surpised but I found that nothing had really changed, still no one wants to talk to me unless they want something (someone I hadn't spoke to in years started up a conversation with me just to get my Orange Wednesday code - for those of you who don't know what that is, my mobile network is Orange and every wednesday you can get buy one, get one free cinema tickets anywhere in the UK) which was very wrong really.
One of the things that bugs me though is that really annoying people who either make up stories to gain attention, or just go on and on about the same thing are really popular! Ok I'm not saying I want like 5000 friends or anything like that but y'know, it's just confusing and almost like how are you so popular?
I recently asked a former colleague out for a friendly drink (she's married and has a kid, so it was always going to be just friends, nothing more) and when she expressed concern that maybe she wouldn't be able to meet up in a more grown up setting because of her child, I said "ok, why not just meet up where your kid can play and we can chat?" offering a simple solution to a simple problem.
Yet she then accused me of being too excited about wanting to go for a drink with her and told me to actually calm down. I responded, saying I didn't think I was being too excited, just offering a solution which she luckily bypassed arguing back that point in her response.
All in all, just a bit of a rant to get some things off my chest before I explode.
I've concluded that I seem to have the personality of a sloth or something like that.
*Forever Alone*
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When I came back on, 6 months later I don't know why I was surpised but I found that nothing had really changed, still no one wants to talk to me unless they want something (someone I hadn't spoke to in years started up a conversation with me just to get my Orange Wednesday code - for those of you who don't know what that is, my mobile network is Orange and every wednesday you can get buy one, get one free cinema tickets anywhere in the UK) which was very wrong really.
One of the things that bugs me though is that really annoying people who either make up stories to gain attention, or just go on and on about the same thing are really popular! Ok I'm not saying I want like 5000 friends or anything like that but y'know, it's just confusing and almost like how are you so popular?
I recently asked a former colleague out for a friendly drink (she's married and has a kid, so it was always going to be just friends, nothing more) and when she expressed concern that maybe she wouldn't be able to meet up in a more grown up setting because of her child, I said "ok, why not just meet up where your kid can play and we can chat?" offering a simple solution to a simple problem.
Yet she then accused me of being too excited about wanting to go for a drink with her and told me to actually calm down. I responded, saying I didn't think I was being too excited, just offering a solution which she luckily bypassed arguing back that point in her response.
All in all, just a bit of a rant to get some things off my chest before I explode.
I've concluded that I seem to have the personality of a sloth or something like that.
*Forever Alone*
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