The problem with the equivalence argument is that it must be "relevant to the logic of the argument" which can be quite complicated to ascertain as people have all sort of implicit premises built into their arguments.
No two things are exactly the same however a proper equivalence argument will argue they are equivalent in a way that is pertinent to the point. If it is then it holds. If someone yells "false equivalence" and finds a difference that is irrelevant then that is not a correct debunking.
The false equivalence fallacy is also especially pernicious when applied to moral problems are people often bring in their own subjective points of view without explaining them.
It's also important to recognise that informal fallacies are not "always wrong", as they depend on very specific circumstances.
No two things are exactly the same however a proper equivalence argument will argue they are equivalent in a way that is pertinent to the point. If it is then it holds. If someone yells "false equivalence" and finds a difference that is irrelevant then that is not a correct debunking.
The false equivalence fallacy is also especially pernicious when applied to moral problems are people often bring in their own subjective points of view without explaining them.
It's also important to recognise that informal fallacies are not "always wrong", as they depend on very specific circumstances.