hey ppl i have this girl that i really like and i totally dont know how to ask her out. She is a friend of mine (only been friends for 3 months) and i just dont know what to do after this. thanks in advance
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You: "Hey, would you be interested in seeing a movie with me?"
(option 1)Girl: "Sure, when are you free?"
(option 2)Girl: "No thanks, sorry"
(option 2)You: "Well, that's too bad. See you later then."
(option 1)Girl: "Sure, when are you free?"
(option 2)Girl: "No thanks, sorry"
(option 2)You: "Well, that's too bad. See you later then."
Ahh, love. I'm in a proper lovey dovey mood after listening to The Cure for the last hour
Anyway, same thing happened to me once. What I did was get over the crush and become even closer friends. Then, about a year later, we ended up getting together. We're broken up now and have been for aaaages but you might end up living happily ever after
Actually, this was really no help whatsoever, was it? Didn't think so
Okay, um, ask her out? What's the worst?
Anyway, same thing happened to me once. What I did was get over the crush and become even closer friends. Then, about a year later, we ended up getting together. We're broken up now and have been for aaaages but you might end up living happily ever after
Actually, this was really no help whatsoever, was it? Didn't think so
Okay, um, ask her out? What's the worst?
Yes go to the escapist to ask this not someone you know but a bunch of people who want to spite you for lols
OT: Dress like a chicken and ask her out can't fail
OT: Dress like a chicken and ask her out can't fail
I totally expected to be quoted by a brony.Shakomaru said:
I could understand if the OP was a regular but he/she isn't.
They made an account specifically for this, when there are hundreds of dating advice sites out there.
Just hang out with her , have fun and see how it goes.You've got to show her that you're interested in her , flirt with her a little , compliment her clothes/hair/whatever , but don't pressure her. If you like her and she likes you things should click together on their own , but don't expect her to jump in your lap . Show some initiative , man.
Most importantly be ready to accept that she might not feel the same way.
Peace.
Most importantly be ready to accept that she might not feel the same way.
Peace.
thanks for the post i think ill do what you said and to those who complain about my grammar then fine i wont use slang no moreCaramel Frappe said:Since you're new, I would like to suggest that there's a search bar. Not mad nor putting you downloveisconfusing said:just letting you know because people here have seen Threads like these multiple times. Anyhow, I shall help you out!
Depending on the girl, you should perhaps get to know what she likes to do. Movies are a classic to spend time at with your friend or girlfriend, but if you wish to make it special then set up a nice dinner. Not to fancy, but nothing cheap ether. Chillies is awesome, try there if you want but again make sure you know what she likes.
Even if she doesn't want to go out that day or isn't in the mood for it (or could be busy), then do not feel it's the end. People need time and you're capable of gaining her attention through patience, devotion, and respect. Being friends for a good period of time is always the key factor to having a better off relationship. Also, be yourself and calm when you ask her out, and don't just admit you like her but rather see how she likes you by taking her out. The rest will come naturally to you, but you must overcome your nervousness. That is all.
You need confidence.
Poor self-esteem is the absolute biggest turn-off. I have seen *very* desirable women with men who were fat, bald, stupid, abusive, missing a leg, you name it. Self-esteem is why. Until you love yourself, women will not love you.
If you ask her out very timidly with a quiver in your voice she will decide you have poor self-esteem. Very few women are interested in propping up a guy who's down all the time. Whatever you say, you have *got* to appear confident. But watch out for too much confidence because that can be almost as bad. From the sound of your question I doubt this will be a problem but I mention it anyway.
Strike a balance. She should feel like her answer matters to you, but not too much.
Finally, take what I just said with a grain of salt. I am, after all, a geek. My own interaction with women has been so overwhelmingly negative I now consider rejection a foregone conclusion and just stay the hell away from them. My advice is based on observation, not experience.
Poor self-esteem is the absolute biggest turn-off. I have seen *very* desirable women with men who were fat, bald, stupid, abusive, missing a leg, you name it. Self-esteem is why. Until you love yourself, women will not love you.
If you ask her out very timidly with a quiver in your voice she will decide you have poor self-esteem. Very few women are interested in propping up a guy who's down all the time. Whatever you say, you have *got* to appear confident. But watch out for too much confidence because that can be almost as bad. From the sound of your question I doubt this will be a problem but I mention it anyway.
Strike a balance. She should feel like her answer matters to you, but not too much.
Finally, take what I just said with a grain of salt. I am, after all, a geek. My own interaction with women has been so overwhelmingly negative I now consider rejection a foregone conclusion and just stay the hell away from them. My advice is based on observation, not experience.