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That happens to a lot of people, me included.
They always seem to be with some doucher don't they?
They always seem to be with some doucher don't they?
This isn't really the best forum for this, but if it's any consolation I've been shot down ten times out of ten in the past year and a half, and when I asked them about why they didn't fancy me, none of them gave me a straight answer. I hate ambiguity, there's a reason for everything, just come out and say it!
I myself have incredibly bad luck with women. I have met well over a dozen women that I could have married, all taken. Like a hundred women that I wanted to date, again all taken. And I've only been out with roughly 10 different girls.
You just gotta keep trying. I manage to find the single ones. Just keep trying. Don't give up. There really are millions of women out there.
God, the man is asking for advice. Do you have to be a dick about it? If you don't want to help, Then DON'T post. Coming on threads and bitching is the worst thing you can do.
You just gotta keep trying. I manage to find the single ones. Just keep trying. Don't give up. There really are millions of women out there.
.Flying-Emu said:
Flying-Emu said:
God, the man is asking for advice. Do you have to be a dick about it? If you don't want to help, Then DON'T post. Coming on threads and bitching is the worst thing you can do.
I am giving him advice. Just because I'm not patting his back and whispering "It'll be okay" doesn't mean I'm not giving him advice. I've been in his situation before, I was exactly the same. And it wasn't until somebody told me to stop being a whinging little puss that I bucked up and solved the problem. Now I have dates on a regular basis and have been in at least one relationship that I consider meaningful.CrysisMcGee said:
The boy needs the truth, not bellyrubbing. Whining about his luck on the Internet isn't going to solve anything. He needs to find the real issue, perhaps his mannerisms with women, or his method in approaching them, and solve that rather than sitting on his rump and saying it's his luck.
Call me an asshole. I am being one. But my advice will hit him harder than a variation on "Keep trying, you're a great guy, blah blah."
maybe your only interested in women who are already in a relationship, some sort of subconcious attraction to that which you cannot have
thats just an objective observation
even so dont stop looking man, sometimes all it takes is time
thats just an objective observation
even so dont stop looking man, sometimes all it takes is time
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The boy needs the truth, not bellyrubbing. Whining about his luck on the Internet isn't going to solve anything. He needs to find the real issue, perhaps his mannerisms with women, or his method in approaching them, and solve that rather than sitting on his rump and saying it's his luck.
Call me an asshole. I am being one. But my advice will hit him harder than a variation on "Keep trying, you're a great guy, blah blah." end. [/quote]
Indeed. I understand what you mean. But I'm telling him the advice that was given to me. Sometimes a kick in the ass works best. It really depends on the person.
And here's some more advice. You have got to have confidence in yourself.
This is what an ass-kicking can do for a person. A wake-up call.
So kick yourself in the ass, have confidence in yourself, and get laid.
I am giving him advice. Just because I'm not patting his back and whispering "It'll be okay" doesn't mean I'm not giving him advice. I've been in his situation before, I was exactly the same. And it wasn't until somebody told me to stop being a whinging little puss that I bucked up and solved the problem. Now I have dates on a regular basis and have been in at least one relationship that I consider meaningful.Flying-Emu said:
The boy needs the truth, not bellyrubbing. Whining about his luck on the Internet isn't going to solve anything. He needs to find the real issue, perhaps his mannerisms with women, or his method in approaching them, and solve that rather than sitting on his rump and saying it's his luck.
Call me an asshole. I am being one. But my advice will hit him harder than a variation on "Keep trying, you're a great guy, blah blah." end. [/quote]
Indeed. I understand what you mean. But I'm telling him the advice that was given to me. Sometimes a kick in the ass works best. It really depends on the person.
And here's some more advice. You have got to have confidence in yourself.
This is what an ass-kicking can do for a person. A wake-up call.
So kick yourself in the ass, have confidence in yourself, and get laid.
Hmm... I thought the dating game was when you were trying to make the other person happy enough to stay with you, or dating one person to make another person jealous enough to want to date you. Everone this guy tryies to date already has a boy friend, so it sounds more like he's asking to join in, but there's already too many players.Flying-Emu said:
Humans are so damn complicated...
AHA! There's your problem! Cut down on the cheesefries, eat more salad, get off the internet and do some crunches. Problem solved. NEXT!Paragon Fury said:
I was joking about the cheese fries.
Salad, though enjoyable, is rather bland most of the time because I hate almost everything they try and put in it.
But the Internet is such a fun place.
And exercise sucks. Its boring, annoying, hot (and I #$%^ing hate heat),and essentially equates to unpaid work? Further, I already spend most of my time working, so why would I want to spend my free time doing something that will just tire me out and annoy me when I can do something expotenially more interesting and fun, like read a book, build a model, play video games, or attempt to find people to have discussions over world and national issues with?
Salad, though enjoyable, is rather bland most of the time because I hate almost everything they try and put in it.
But the Internet is such a fun place.
And exercise sucks. Its boring, annoying, hot (and I #$%^ing hate heat),and essentially equates to unpaid work? Further, I already spend most of my time working, so why would I want to spend my free time doing something that will just tire me out and annoy me when I can do something expotenially more interesting and fun, like read a book, build a model, play video games, or attempt to find people to have discussions over world and national issues with?
Dude, you're pretty much me. I was a pretty chunky kid when I was in primary school, but when it came to high school I went through a sort of obsessive, masochistic exercise stage of my life. I put quite a bit of muscle on, but since I came out of that I find it gradually fading away. Generally though, I hate exercise and I hate heat. But I do like me some salad.Paragon Fury said:
Still, just take about 10 minutes out of your day (5 in the morning, 5 in the evening) to do a few crunches or sit-ups and you should be right. It'll take a few weeks probably, but you will eventually see some results, as will the ladiiies...
Incidentally, what sort of work would that be?
If it's looks that are affecting your girl obtaining chances then all you gotta do is hit up the gym. Seriously, you don't have to go to the gym either, just do a bunch of stuff at home like push-ups, crunches, run around the block a few times, anything. Even better, take up boxing or some kind of fighting related activity, girls are attracted to guys that they can feel safe with and knowing how to break a dude's arm in 3 places or being able to one-hit KO someone will help alot.
