Alright. Let me preface this with a few details to explain my question. I consider myself a relatively avid gamer. In the thread between casual and hardcore, if there is such a thing. But do to the fact that I am not a fan of my common man, I have stayed away from online/multi-player gaming completely. I own a 360 and a PS3, and my turn-ons are 3rd person action/adventure, RPG, and FPS(the latter I'm am just recently getting into). I detest sports and racers. My few(two) friends are constantly telling me about the nirvana-like joys of Xboxlive, when not abusing me for buying a PS3(sorry but I will forever go to my PS first-guess that makes me a fan boy). So I'm looking for input from gamers who have been in my situation. Those of you who have tried multi-player and never looked back, also those who made the move and ran away screaming. Also if I could get some feedback on Xboxlive versus the PSN, it would be appreciated. Since I appear to be the only guy I know who owns the the PS3. I realize that I COULD just try it and see how I like it, but I'm putting my faith in the masses. Thanks for any feedback that anyone can give.