not really if you did that and np i can sometimes say things that are smart and insightfulBlue Sonnet said:Thank you for putting that into perspective for me. I didn't do any of those things, so yes, I could have been a lot worse. I also managed to stop him taking drugs and drinking so much he couldn't even remember going out, let alone getting home, so I mustn't have been that bad a person.
i've found that ppl often like the blame you for doing things they themselves do, some sort of transference. i've had it a few times and it's gets rather tiring, tho it is rather funny sometimesBlue Sonnet said:Still can't believe the message I got - it basically accused me of being a mad stalker ex who was determined to break them up and ruin their happiness! It's been years, why would I do that after all this time? She justified her actions by saying that if she heard something that could jeopardise her son's life, she'd take action.
Hardly the same thing, especially as the action of sending the message probably blew it out of all proportion and made things worse.
If my message was so evil, so ruinous and malicious, created purely to break them up (as she inferred), then why send it to a happy couple when it might split them up?
anyways it's kinda stupid to try and justify it that way, oh i told someone who wasn't related to me something that has to do with their son cause i'd tell my son if i was told something like that