Foggy_Fishburne said:
Tears of Blood said:
I'm going to start Aikido sometime. It's hard finding a dojo for it that isn't full around here. Otherwise, I may just take up some other martial art, but the idea behind Aikido interests me.
I haven't really gotten into too many fights in my days, but the ones I have I "won." Mostly because they didn't expect me to fight back and when I did they quit. Otherwise, I'm sure I simply deterred the fights from happening with my appearance.
I practiced Aikido for about 1 year, a little more perhaps, and I recommend it highly. But now here's a little warning, the thing that made me stop: Get a mate. Aikido is a sport centered around defensive techniques with emphasis on DEFENSIVE. You won't learn to attack only defend so to learn anything you'll need a friend, you can NOT learn anything by yourself except the falls and rolls. Ofc you can train with another Aikidoka but if you don't "click" you'll soon realise that you're quite alone. And if the students aren't very nice or patiant with you and your learning progress, the will and love for Aikido will soon fade. If you don't have any friends, like I do, then Aikido can become a really lonely place for you. Get a friend to come with you and at least try. Training with a friend is haven and hopefully the situation for you

Peace
I'll have to make a friend in the dojo, then. I don't have "friends" really, to my dismay, and certainly none that are going to want to learn this along with me.
Thanks for the advice, though. I'll keep it in mind.
I have heard criticisms of Aikido, though. As it's built on defense, people say that many of the meneuvers learned aren't realisticly applicable in a real fight. Comedians, even, have exaggerated it. However, I have heard a lot of good things about it too, and a fighting style where you're more likely going to humiliate your opponent than really hurt him is great for me.