mending a broken heart

[coldfire86]

hey dont mean to be a bother to anyone but i recently found out that the girl ive been dating and am maddly in love with dose not like me at all in fact she like my freind now this would not hurt as much if we werent dating and if she hadent already told me she loved me. so any help on getting over her would be great

 

[DefinitelyPsychotic]

How long have you been dating her for, and how old are you?

 

[Gentleman_Reptile]

Chin up cowboy, you haven't lost out yet. Just because she doesn't like you now.... doesn't mean she wont like you in the future or is incapable of coming around to you now.

 

[Count Igor]

I suggest you find something you are awesome at and get even BETTER for a few hours.
Or snog someone random. That always helps!

 

[ScoopMeister]

Write a strongly worded letter. Call her all the bad names under the sun. I don't know. It might make you feel better.

 

[coldfire86]

well im 24 she is turning 20 next week and its been a few moths but ive known her for a while
and im trying to find somthing to fill that place were she once was but were i live my choises are food or drugs

 

[Flare Phoenix]

Unfortunately, all you can do is give it time. Try to limit as much interaction with her as possible (if that means cutting back on seeing your friend so be it). You will get over it in time. I wish I could give you some magic quick-fix but unfortunately there isn't one. All I can say is don't try to rush into a new relationship. It won't help, and you won't be doing anyone a favor.

 

[coldfire86]

well i kind of dont want to get over her i still really love her but i dont know maby i just want goodenugh

 

[Alon Shechter]

well im 24 she is turning 20 next week and its been a few moths but ive known her for a while
and im trying to find somthing to fill that place were she once was but were i live my choises are food or drugs

The stench of troll leaks from you.
Just saying. Maybe I'm wrong but you do a great job making it look like you're trolling.

 

[coldfire86]

trolling?

 

[IntangibleMango]

Dude, you're 24 - you would have thought you'd learn this kind of thing by now!

All I can add to these guys' advice is don't do anything stupid.

 

[Rusman]

Broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years recently. My suggestion is try and move on as soon as possible... I wallowed for about 6 weeks and it's really screwed me up in the long run.
Confide in friends, without a circle of very close friends I would have probably done something stupid... or more stupid at least.
Most importantly, don't dwell on it! Find a distraction, as you are here I will presume that you game, find a nice long game that is very immersive and play the hell out of it. It's kinda silly but Mass Effect 1/2 really helped me as I could lose hours playing and not have to think about things.

 

[coldfire86]

and as for doing somthing stupid i already did i belived that she loved me

 

[Brown Cap]

Dude. We all have been there in some twisted way. Finding a creative outlet from writing depressing poetry, (even if you're not good) or playing an insturment or artwork is one of the best ways to cope with this kind of thing.

 

[SilentCom]

Dude. We all have been there in some twisted way. Finding a creative outlet from writing depressing poetry, (even if you're not good) or playing an insturment or artwork is one of the best ways to cope with this kind of thing.

I would have to second this. I find writing to be a good way of getting hurt feelings out. Even if no one else is going to read what you wrote (probably best to keep to yourself anyways), it still feels good to write it all off.