Most crazy thing your girlfriend (or signifigant other) has been upset at you for.

[Amir Kondori]

Sigh...I guess I can add to this post.

I'm dating (although I'm not sure how much longer at this rate) a girl that's about 6 years younger than me. At first I didn't think that would be an issue. We like the same things, we get along well, and we're basically on the same wave length for a lot of things.

She used to not be able to keep her hands off of me. I'd walk her out to her car and she'd nuzzle my shoulder and kept saying, "I like you." She'd come over and if I wanted to get her off of me, I'd need a crowbar or something. Then, one night, she tells me, "I'm just not in the mood." Okay, that's find. So we sit and just watch a movie. But that was over a month ago now. She's stopped nuzzling me, she no longer deep kiss me--just quick little kiss--and she's stopped coming over every chance she gets.

Now, why did I say all that? Because here comes the hard part. She said she feels like I don't like her anymore and that she's the only one trying--despite the fact that I come in to see her after work and I just bought her flowers. She says I don't talk to her anymore, after she yelled at me because I was texting her too late. She says I don't invite her over anymore, despite the fact that I've been asking her to come over constantly for weeks. And before you say, "Well, why don't you go over to her place?" I've tried. I tried last night. I said, "Do you want me to come over to your place and pick you up?" She said she would probably stand in her driveway and laugh at me because, and I quote, "You don't seem to know how to be in a relationship." She also yelled at me for falling asleep. I came over from a long day at work and passed out. Two hours later I get a text message asking if I'm mad at her because I haven't responded to her facebook messages. I told her I was asleep and haven't been online all day, so I'll check now. Her response was, "Don't bother. I can't deal with you right now." The very next day, after telling me she can't deal with me, she asks, "Are you mad at me? Because I haven't heard from you since I went off on you."
She said that her plans with her baby's father (long story there) had fallen through last weekend (they were going to California to visit his uncle) and then she said all these other things they were going to do instead. After which, she yelled at me later saying that she had been waiting all day for me to contact her and make plans--even though she had just sent me a list of how busy her day was going to be.

So basically, I feel like I'm being yelled at for something that is just not humanly possible: not being psychic. I'm going to talk to her about this today and say we have a communication problem that we need to address, but at the rate things have been going, I'm pretty sure she's just going to get upset with me again and call the whole thing off. Wish me luck.

If wish you luck it will be that you break it off with her. From your version of events it sounds like she doesn't respect you. Send her the post you made and see what she says. Either she has lost respect for you or is trying to get you to break up with her. Either way you will better if you figure it out instead of living in a relationship like this.

 

[Padwolf]

Well my ex got really upset with me because I couldn't predict when he was going to wake up. So we were in a long distance relationship and he expected me to drop everything I was doing the moment he came online. He used to wake up a certain time (we both did, we had bad time differences) As would I, but he stopped waking up at that time. So he expected me to be waiting for him to wake up. Only I decided to play league of legends with some friends during the day, and so he came online a few times and I said "sorry, in game at the moment, I'll talk to you in a bit". He'd get really upset with me and then after that we'd spend the whole day in a skype call doing nothing because he didn't want me to be doing anything else.

He also got upset with me because I was upset because I had a really bad day. He said I ruined his mood and ruined his day. So he sat on skype with me doing nothing and being moody.

Thank god I'm out of that crap.