Smiley Face said:
A lot of this sounds like what I went through back when I used to play Diplomacy. Talk with everyone, and if someone leaves a big enough opening, blitz them for all you're worth.
I recommend you trying Crusader Kings 2 first, it's more casual, but alot of fun!
Not only a strategy game but a Strategy RPG.
Me and 3 friends are playing a game where we are all 4 muslim rulers in Saudi-Arabia,
we wanted to create the Kingdom of Arabia, but something went wrong..
One of my vassals (A human player)created a duchy for him own, making him leave my realm!
This was a stick in the wheel for our plans! And after that I heard one my my other vassals (also human)
typing on his keyboard (We were talking in Skype at the same time) I knew he was scheming against me!
He and the other one had plans! So I put him in jail and removed all of his titles. That forced him to seek exile
at the other human player who abandoned me.
While they were trying to survive, me and the third player, who was still loyal to me tried to expand.
And so we did, but not in Arabia, we went for the jews in Ethiopia! And we got it, thereafter we expanded to Nubia.
And guess what, I managed to create the Sultante of Nubia! Joy to the world!
After that everything went right! I took over Somalia, creating the Sultanate of Ifid, I conquered Ethiopia, becoming
Sultan of Ethiopia too!
Now the guy I send to jail, or rather his sons son or something like that approched me.
He knew I was growing larger and more powerful! He wanted to betray the guy who betrayed me!
After consulting my human friend we decided to agree with his demands. (He wanted northern Saudi Arabia)
So when that happened the first guy who left me was alone. I asked him to join my nation, but he said no.
But after a few decades he approched me, said he would join me if I gave him Oman, I agreed.
So here we are, not even half way into the game, I am ruler of Ethiopia, Ibid, Nubia & Arabia!
Our next goal was quite hard, to the Northeast we had the great Persian empire, and to the northeast the great Egyptian Sultanate. We wanted the rest of Arabia, so we declared a holy war (We are sunnis, they are shia) against Egypt while they were at war with the Persians! It all went well... Until they got a peace-treaty with Persia! We saw thousands of Egyptians marching towards us!
The first battle was horrible, we lost 24% warscore and we thought the war was lost!
But we recruited more holy warriors and mercenaries, and luckely Egypt decided to split his troops! And we
managed to retake Media, Mecca & the rest of the provinces we wanted, giving us 100% warscore! We accepted!
And here we are now! Our next goal is to take out all of Egypt! We need to create an empire!
A Sultanate is not enough!
I hope this post might inspire you to try it out!