need more advice

[Wobbleflops]

Thinking of saving for a piercing or a tattoo.

Piercing i'm looking at getting ear pierced then stretched to like 1cm+, and a lip piercing

OR

Custom designed tattoo, probably half sleeve, or down inside of my arm.

Both will be expensive, as buying all the kit for stretching will cost a small fortune, so escapist, what do you think i should do ?

 

[Ironic Pirate]

If I were you, I'd get the tattoo, because I don't like piercings, but again, that's just me.

 

[HotFezz8]

i personnaly don't like either, so i would recommend against both.

however having no experience, this is a mootcomment.

that said i have a coworker with a stretched earlobe piercing thing, and during a fight someone stuck their finger into it then pulled the ear lobe apart. grisly, and very very bloody.

 

[hyperhammy]

Tattoo if you really want it... =D and only if you REALLY want it.
Otherwise, if you aren't sure, get the piercing...

 

[Wobbleflops]

If i don't stretch it past 1cm, it will go back to normal if i take it out.

I see what you're saying about the tattoo, i'll give it a good thinking

 

[Furious Styles]

tattoo definitely, stretched lobes are hideous

 

[Crystalite]

Okay... a stretched ear piercing? How old are you?
Remember that this will not go away, not ever.
Like the tatoo, you will have this untill you die.

With the tatoo:
Choose a motive you will still like when you are 80. Trust me, you will change a lot till then, and it may start to piss you off real bad.

With the stretched piercing:
You can not hide it. You will most certainly never get a job in which your appearance plays any role. And even if it does not, it sends a message to the boss you apply to. This is a serious breach of social protocol, be certain that society will consider you as an outsider by choice. Always bear in mind what that means, for the rest of your life!

I do not mean to be condescending, but this is serious.
Please give this good thought, and picture yourself as becoming very old with this.


edit:
Read what you wrote. Do you know this for a fact? Remember that this whole "going back" thing is highly dependant on your individual tissue. Some may go back, some may not.

 

[Wobbleflops]

Hmm, so piercing, but not stretched incase it does not heal

And tattoo, well hidden, and something i will still appreciate when i'm old.