Speaking as an American, I will definitely say there are places in my country I wouldn't feel safe walking alone, and more that I wouldn't feel safe walking at night, and a few that I wouldn't even want to drive through. Not long ago, I had the experience of playing board games over at a friend's house when we heard a series of popping sounds.
Fireworks, someone said. No, I thought; those pops were way too regular in their interval for a firework...
...It turned out someone had unloaded a gun into the house down the street from a car window, and then driven away.
No one hurt, fortunately, even in the house targeted; someone was apparently trying to "send a message".
I'm bothered by the ready availability of firearms in my country, and even more so by a certain mindset that thinks one has to own a gun to be safe, or worse, that owning a gun makes one a self-enforcer of a sort of private law. I've known responsible gun owners- hunters, veterans- but I've also encountered some people who never should have been allowed behind the wheel of a car, let alone to own a gun.
Yet I would have to say, on a day-to-day basis, I don't fear violence. I don't feel unsafe. I don't think someone is going to break into my home and kill me for drug money, or mug me if I walk downtown, or down the street to a grocery store. Most of the people around me would sooner stop to help someone who was in trouble than hurt someone who seemed vulnerable.
Despite the amount of fear-mongering that goes on in our media, I think most people feel they have something to lose by hurting each other. That life isn't cheap. I fear people who feel they have nothing to lose, whether those people are in Seattle or Toronto, Chicago or Paris, Baltimore or Auckland.
But- and perhaps I am fortunate in where I've happened to live and travel- I don't feel that I encounter such people that often. Even most of the people I've dealt with in unfortunate circumstances- homeless, drug addicts, felons- wanted something better for their lives, and didn't want to take it from someone else.