The problem with Skyrim for me is how the plot doesn't insist upon you at all. After the beginning where you're saved you can ignore everyone and, everything and be just fine. Or you can join in the Civil War which is raging about as heavily as the American Civil War is now.
The Dragons also, don't seem to pop up until you start doing the main quest line. There's absolutely no sense of urgency in the game.
I joined up with The Imperials but that wasn't enough for the Stormcloaks to attack me on sight, even if I enter their encampments. Even after killing Ulfric Stormcloak, the stragglers left me alone.
The Dragons also, don't seem to pop up until you start doing the main quest line. There's absolutely no sense of urgency in the game.