I think the main point here is that men want to be portrayed as gruff, musclebound, fighter-types. It only occurs to us that we could be like that when we are explicitly compared to them. Women (dont judge my opinion here) see a hot, scantily-clad Lara Croft type woman and automatically think *that should be me*, and then are angered when it cant or doesnt happen. This is why women fight this unrealistic image. I am not saying that this fight is wrongly made, just that most guys dont care about an unrealistic masculine image.