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Mossberg Shotty said:
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We should bring back Victorian England.
Nah, I'm good without workhouses for orphans, being fired because my arm got cut off in the steam press(because now I can't work as efficently), 18-hour workdays and no weekends, being paid pennies a day so the factory owner can own an small country, and dying from horrible diseases because there are open sewers in the street. You know, the products of "Unregulated business".

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Someone getting offended because they read to far into an otherwise joking comment? How surprising. Did I not say that the past is generally not a good place? Did you make this post to convince me of something I already know?

If we were in Victorian England, this would be the part where I challenge you to a duel.

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I didn't realize you were joking, partially because I've read/heard people seriously say things like "Political Correctness destroying America"(Where "Political Correctness" is code for "Not being racist/homophobic") or more bluntly "If we just treated all middle eastern people as terrorists(Kill them, or imprison them forever), we'd never have to worry about terror attacks the US again".
 

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When I read this, all I keep thinking of are numerous reprehensible things that are usually defended with calls of "Tradition!" as if that in itself means it should remain forever.

Just because we've always done it someway doesn't mean it was a good idea in the first place. I'm kind of happy to see society actually look at traditions and decide whether or not they need to continue.
This. How is this even up for debate?

Society is supposed to progress, so old things are supposed to be replaced. Just because footbinding or owning slaves or castrating young male singers was done, doesn't mean it was right.
 
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OT, the traditional social values I could get behind are...all of them. Traditional solutions to social organization were not only prudent and derived from centuries of wisdom, but often innovative and elegantly simple. I think my feelings on the matter could best be summed up in a song. Prepare for feels:
When I read this, all I keep thinking of are numerous reprehensible things that are usually defended with calls of "Tradition!" as if that in itself means it should remain forever.

Just because we've always done it someway doesn't mean it was a good idea in the first place. I'm kind of happy to see society actually look at traditions and decide whether or not they need to continue.
The question in my mind is whether society has actually taken a good look at any of them before deciding to throw them into the proverbial "dustbin of history"; or whether, finding traditions that just so happen to conflict with their distorted view of what they think society is supposed to look like, reformers have rubbed their hands together in glee and said "I have no idea why *this* is here; so it'll have to go!"

This idea is most eloquently described in the parable of Chesterton's fence, which I was discussing with beastro earlier and which I will reproduce here:

"In the matter of reforming things, as distinct from deforming them, there is one plain and simple principle; a principle which will probably be called a paradox. There exists in such a case a certain institution or law; let us say, for the sake of simplicity, a fence or gate erected across a road. The more modern type of reformer goes gaily up to it and says, "I don't see the use of this; let us clear it away." To which the more intelligent type of reformer will do well to answer: "If you don't see the use of it, I certainly won't let you clear it away. Go away and think. Then, when you can come back and tell me that you do see the use of it, I may allow you to destroy it."

This paradox rests on the most elementary common sense. The gate or fence did not grow there. It was not set up by somnambulists who built it in their sleep. It is highly improbable that it was put there by escaped lunatics who were for some reason loose in the street. Some person had some reason for thinking it would be a good thing for somebody. And until we know what the reason was, we really cannot judge whether the reason was reasonable. It is extremely probable that we have overlooked some whole aspect of the question, if something set up by human beings like ourselves seems to be entirely meaningless and mysterious. There are reformers who get over this difficulty by assuming that all their fathers were fools; but if that be so, we can only say that folly appears to be a hereditary disease. But the truth is that nobody has any business to destroy a social institution until he has really seen it as an historical institution. If he knows how it arose, and what purposes it was supposed to serve, he may really be able to say that they were bad purposes, or that they have since become bad purposes, or that they are purposes which are no longer served. But if he simply stares at the thing as a senseless monstrosity that has somehow sprung up in his path, it is he and not the traditionalist who is suffering from an illusion.
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On the flip side of this, to elide or replace an old tradition, a reformer must not only understand what purpose the old tradition fulfilled, but also what the full consequences of the institution they intend to replace it with will be - if they intend to replace it with anything. I'd argue that for most of the institutions that we've lost to "progress", only one or the other half of this necessary thought process has been done - and that, badly.

thaluikhain said:
How is this even up for debate?
It's funny how progressives are all for open discussion and debate when they happen to be living under traditions they find uncomfortable, but after they've won and gotten their ill-conceived notions written into law, suddenly any other opinion is beyond the pale of reasonable thought.

thaluikhain said:
Society is supposed to progress, so old things are supposed to be replaced. Just because footbinding or owning slaves or castrating young male singers was done, doesn't mean it was right.
"Society is supposed to progress." What an interesting and completely ahistorical notion. I wonder where you got it, or if you actually know what you mean when you say it? Because, to me, it bears a curious resemblance to the Puritan notion of Providence - a mysterious, history-spanning force for good that slowly and inexorably immanentizes the eschaton, whether we like it or not.

Oh, and nice job cherry-picking traditions that you find horrifying, one of which isn't even from western culture, which is what I assumed everyone knew I was referring to when I said I liked "all" past traditions. I could easily do the same for modern society, though in that case it'd be less like cherry-picking and more like combine harvesting.
 

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implyingimplications said:
thaluikhain said:
How is this even up for debate?
It's funny how progressives are all for open discussion and debate when they happen to be living under traditions they find uncomfortable, but after they've won and gotten their ill-conceived notions written into law, suddenly any other opinion is beyond the pale of reasonable thought.
You're right, I worded that badly. I should have said "Why does this even need to be debated?" or somesuch.

implyingimplications said:
I could easily do the same for modern society, though in that case it'd be less like cherry-picking and more like combine harvesting.
Sure, if I was to say that all new values are good ones. That would be remarkable foolish of me.
 
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thaluikhain said:
implyingimplications said:
thaluikhain said:
How is this even up for debate?
It's funny how progressives are all for open discussion and debate when they happen to be living under traditions they find uncomfortable, but after they've won and gotten their ill-conceived notions written into law, suddenly any other opinion is beyond the pale of reasonable thought.
You're right, I worded that badly. I should have said "Why does this even need to be debated?" or somesuch.
The sentiment is the same in either case; you seem incapable of stepping into your opponent's shoes or even realizing that someone might have a different opinion. It is self-evident, in your mind, that capital-P Progress is just the bee's knees, and yet you have not defined what "progress" is supposed to mean. Progress from what, towards what? Progress implies movement in a direction, but what direction are we going? Is it necessarily a "good" direction? Have past societies even considered the idea that history could move in one direction? Unless I'm quite mistaken, the traditional (and historically supported) view of history is that civilizations come and go in cycles, irrespective of their level of technological progress or their particular moral views.

thaluikhain said:
implyingimplications said:
I could easily do the same for modern society, though in that case it'd be less like cherry-picking and more like combine harvesting.
Sure, if I was to say that all new values are good ones. That would be remarkable foolish of me.
I see what you did, there. Okay - so let's not assume that either of us is saying that our favorite half of history is uniformly excellent in the realm of social values. Maybe I exaggerated when I said I liked all traditional (western) social values. I suppose that if I dug I'd find a few I dislike, though I can't think of any off the top of my head. Though you must understand when you say things like "Society is supposed to progress", that sounds an awful lot like you're saying that all new social values are better than all old ones.
 

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implyingimplications said:
I see what you did, there. Okay - so let's not assume that either of us is saying that our favorite half of history is uniformly excellent in the realm of social values. Maybe I exaggerated when I said I liked all traditional (western) social values. I suppose that if I dug I'd find a few I dislike, though I can't think of any off the top of my head.
Fair enough, that was the point I was opposed to, that, by virtue of being old, it is automatically better.

implyingimplications said:
Though you must understand when you say things like "Society is supposed to progress", that sounds an awful lot like you're saying that all new social values are better than all old ones.
Perhaps I worded that badly, yes.

What I meant was, society isn't static. The traditional values that you support evolved out of something else, something you'd probably support less. If things are going well, society will improve itself, its values would be better than it had before, which is why I used the word "supposed". And, yes, of course somehow has to sit down and decide what is "better".

In the last few hundred years, western society has changed in various ways most people living today would consider as improvements. We aren't ruled by hereditary monarchs anymore, slavery abolished, democracy was extended to all citizens regardless of race or gender, we protect the rights of workers and children etc.
 

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I didn't realize you were joking, partially because I've read/heard people seriously say things like "Political Correctness destroying America"(Where "Political Correctness" is code for "Not being racist/homophobic") or more bluntly "If we just treated all middle eastern people as terrorists(Kill them, or imprison them forever), we'd never have to worry about terror attacks the US again".
Nice to know there's no middle ground between genocide and thinking that cultural sensitivity has gone a bit too far. I was joking in the sense that I don't really think the mindsets of yesterday need to make a comeback, there's no place for it in 2014. But I do like certain things about the time period (Fashion, literature, art etc.)
 

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While I would in no way enforce it I believe that having the wife stay at home would benefit the United States. A individual that is always at hand to teach and grow their kids into capable adults. We seem to have much less time to even help kids with homework, much less assist in childhood issues.

Also we'd lose a good chunk of our workforce driving unemployment down.
 

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While I would in no way enforce it I believe that having the wife stay at home would benefit the United States. A individual that is always at hand to teach and grow their kids into capable adults. We seem to have much less time to even help kids with homework, much less assist in childhood issues.

Also we'd lose a good chunk of our workforce driving unemployment down.
And why the wife? And wait Wife or Mom? Cause you kind of imply with wife that you mean as soon as she's married she can't work.

Plus completely not possible in this economy.

Not to mention how blatantly sexist such a thing would be.
 

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laraem said:
Zack Alklazaris said:
While I would in no way enforce it I believe that having the wife stay at home would benefit the United States. A individual that is always at hand to teach and grow their kids into capable adults. We seem to have much less time to even help kids with homework, much less assist in childhood issues.

Also we'd lose a good chunk of our workforce driving unemployment down.
And why the wife? And wait Wife or Mom? Cause you kind of imply with wife that you mean as soon as she's married she can't work.

Plus completely not possible in this economy.

Not to mention how blatantly sexist such a thing would be.
Studies show children, especially infants are more connected to the mother than the father. Its one of the reasons why you can get pregnancy leave. As a man who is the cook, the cleaner of messes and does the laundry I can see the father staying at home, just thought the mother would have more impact development wise.

And as I said before, I wouldn't enforce it. I just see that a child who manages their own lives tend to have a much harder transitioning period into adulthood. Guidance through experience is a great learning tool.
 

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Zack Alklazaris said:
laraem said:
Zack Alklazaris said:
While I would in no way enforce it I believe that having the wife stay at home would benefit the United States. A individual that is always at hand to teach and grow their kids into capable adults. We seem to have much less time to even help kids with homework, much less assist in childhood issues.

Also we'd lose a good chunk of our workforce driving unemployment down.
And why the wife? And wait Wife or Mom? Cause you kind of imply with wife that you mean as soon as she's married she can't work.

Plus completely not possible in this economy.

Not to mention how blatantly sexist such a thing would be.
Studies show children, especially infants are more connected to the mother than the father. Its one of the reasons why you can get pregnancy leave. As a man who is the cook, the cleaner of messes and does the laundry I can see the father staying at home, just thought the mother would have more impact development wise.

And as I said before, I wouldn't enforce it. I just see that a child who manages their own lives tend to have a much harder transitioning period into adulthood. Guidance through experience is a great learning tool.
I'd like to see that study and see how it falls in terms of social bias and social influence.

Anywho whatevs if you aren't gonna enforce it your thoughts are your own.
 

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laraem said:
Zack Alklazaris said:
laraem said:
Zack Alklazaris said:
While I would in no way enforce it I believe that having the wife stay at home would benefit the United States. A individual that is always at hand to teach and grow their kids into capable adults. We seem to have much less time to even help kids with homework, much less assist in childhood issues.

Also we'd lose a good chunk of our workforce driving unemployment down.
And why the wife? And wait Wife or Mom? Cause you kind of imply with wife that you mean as soon as she's married she can't work.

Plus completely not possible in this economy.

Not to mention how blatantly sexist such a thing would be.
Studies show children, especially infants are more connected to the mother than the father. Its one of the reasons why you can get pregnancy leave. As a man who is the cook, the cleaner of messes and does the laundry I can see the father staying at home, just thought the mother would have more impact development wise.

And as I said before, I wouldn't enforce it. I just see that a child who manages their own lives tend to have a much harder transitioning period into adulthood. Guidance through experience is a great learning tool.
The studies are mixed, but since you asked.
http://life.familyeducation.com/bonding/mothers/54196.html

I'd like to see that study and see how it falls in terms of social bias and social influence.

Anywho whatevs if you aren't gonna enforce it your thoughts are your own.