Opinion's on how a girl thinks.

[TeeBs]

Alright, there is this girl I liked, we used to talk a whole lot and she acted like she liked me, at least from a psychological point of veiw. You know she tried to make me notice her some times, gave me playful nicknames and was just playful in general, But out of no where she just stopped talking to me. I try to talk to her but she doesn't really converse with me if you know what I mean.

What do you think this means?

 

[Double A]

She's a girl. Girls are more impulsive and random socially than guys are physically and mentally.

 

[Imp Poster]

Maybe she gave you a window of opportunity and you didn't ask her out. She moved on?

 

[SnootyEnglishman]

Perhaps those nicknames and the showing herself off to you giving you the opportunity to make a move. But having missed that she's moved on. Or perhaps she's just a damn tease. The mind of a woman is complex sometimes.

 

[The Seldom Seen Kid]

Same problem here actually.

We just missed the window of opportunity, that's all. Sorry mate.

(For the record, I did actually ask. The shorter version of her answer was the above.)

 

[Redlin5_v1legacy]

I'd rather not try to understand the way they think. It's just... They usually...

Gah, just...

[sub]I cannot even hazard a guess. Every woman I've met is different.[/sub]

 

[Mcupobob]

She got bored prolly.

 

[RatRace123]

Shit if I know.
Bitches be crazy like that.

Truthfully, I can't say. I consider myself pretty good at reading people, but sometimes girls just seem to up and change their opinions with no rhyme or reason.
A kind person would say the heart of a woman is like the sea.
For my opinion, see the first paragraph.

 

[DuctTapeJedi]

Just ask her directly. I always wonder why guys wonder about "how girls think." We think like people.

 

[kokirisoldier]

Hard to say dude. 8 out of 10 of my friends are girls and I still don't really understand them. Perhaps you made a small gesture/mistake that they took personally. Or possibly she was giving you subtle hints and you didn't catch on in time and they took that as an insult.

 

[Redlin5_v1legacy]

As for you OP, I think you missed a chance to ask her out and she's given up. Or maybe she hasn't? I don't know, as you can tell I'm not exactly an expert on how they think.

 

[Lord Habbs]

sorry dude but ether you missed you're chance or it really was nothing more than harmless flirting...
or maybe she just wanted to see if she could play you along...
girls are exactly the same as guys...they want exactly what we want when our hormones are flying around
1, to find the right person
2, to have a little fun
3, to know that they are attractive

just make sure you get in there quick when the next opportunity comes knocking

 

[Double A]

She's a girl. Girls are more impulsive and random socially than guys are physically and mentally.

Men are more spontaneous genetically speaking, thanks to their higher levels of testosterone - the hormone responsible for impulsivity, reckless behavior and the elevated flight or fight response.

OT: She was just being friendly.

And now that you've called me out, I want to sink back into obscurity.

But that is what I meant. We don't think before we act usually. Girls do seemingly random stuff, but there's probably some sort of plan you all have. I think.

It's sort of like the poisoned wine scene in the Princess Bride.

 

[RaphaelsRedemption]

Maybe you should ask her.

Girls be people too.

I'm a girl, and though I admit members of my gender can act like total idiots sometimes, so can men. We are not puzzles. We're people, and we appreciate, perhaps more than men, communication. So go talk to her, instead of talking about her on the net.

By the way, if you're interested in her, it may well not be a good idea to let her know you have been discussing her on a pulic forum...

 

[Something Amyss]

She's a girl. Girls are more impulsive and random socially than guys are physically and mentally.

Men are more spontaneous genetically speaking, thanks to their higher levels of testosterone - the hormone responsible for impulsivity, reckless behavior and the elevated flight or fight response.

OT: She was just being friendly.

"Testosterone is the great equalizer--it makes all men idiots."

--Giles, Buffy the vampire Slayer.

 

[Dragonpit]

Like Imp Poster said, you should've asked her out. She was obviously trying to make you notice her for a reason, and usually, they aren't direct. I'm not sure if she's still willing from the sounds of things, but try taking initiative next time.

 

[Yureina]

Alright, there is this girl I liked, we used to talk a whole lot and she acted like she liked me, at least from a psychological point of veiw. You know she tried to make me notice her some times, gave me playful nicknames and was just playful in general, But out of no where she just stopped talking to me. I try to talk to her but she doesn't really converse with me if you know what I mean.

What do you think this means?

From where I sit... I'd guess that one of two things were going on. She could have been genuinely interested in you, but ended up backing away because you did not ask her out or anything like that. On the other hand, she could also just be a playful person who likes to do things like that. How does she treat other people you know? Has anything happened that might cause her to want to avoid you for some reason? These are questions you ought to be asking yourself, since the answers to both might give you the overall answer that you are trying to find out.

But... what I am saying here is mostly guesswork.

Does any of that help? :3
- Rei

 

[PeePantz]

She's a girl. Girls are more impulsive and random socially than guys are physically and mentally.

Men are more spontaneous genetically speaking, thanks to their higher levels of testosterone - the hormone responsible for impulsivity, reckless behavior and the elevated flight or fight response.

OT: She was just being friendly.

Studies have shown that estrogen has the same impact on women that testosterone has on men. Behaviorally, we can be very similar. It all depends on our levels.

OT: I have acted this way with females before. At one time, she might of found you as potentially sexually compatible but her interest has waned. She might not have been all about you but because she was very flirtatious with you the idea of the two of you being intimate has probably popped in her head at one point. This DOES NOT mean it would happen, but she probably thought about it. Now, she's disinterested and even the notion of it being "potential" has been erased from her head.

 

[Something Amyss]

"Testosterone is the great equalizer--it makes all men idiots."

--Giles, Buffy the vampire Slayer.

XD

Hilarious quote is hilarious.

I agree. Not that I am at all misandristic...

>.>

But that is what I meant. We don't think before we act usually. Girls do seemingly random stuff, but there's probably some sort of plan you all have. I think.

I think it's mostly that men and women tend to approach a situation differently. I've never thought of either gender as particularly "random," but then, I also find a lot of the communication issues to be utterly stupid (and I mean no offense to anyone by that; I'm talking en masse).

On the other hand, I totally get the instance of trouble dealing with someone you like, which this partially is. I'm pretty verbose. I've spent years overcoming communication disorders to be a writer and a journalist. I get within ten feet of someone I like, and my hormones reduce me to a pile of jello.

It's actually amazing how that works, male or female, gay straight or bi, or any other combination.

 

[Jezzeh]

I actually feel somewhat bad for you, OT, because I actually did the same thing to a guy just recently...

My reasoning was pretty damn simple. We talked often, texted daily, and hung out on numerous occasions. But the simple fact was that he was boring as hell. His only real interests were his parole and getting high ('cause those two together make a lot of sense) and all he ever talked about was how bored he was and how many hours of community service he still had to do. It was hugely depressing; I like being spontaneous and having fun, and a guy as uninteresting as he was proved to be a huge turn-off.

To be fair, he got the hint rather quickly, and I don't feel guilty about it. The simple fact was that I gave him the chance, and he didn't meet my standards (which aren't particularly high).

Every girl is different. As others have stated before me, I humbly suggest that you simply ask her yourself. Open up to her, but don't blame her or accuse her of anything or she'll likely ignore you completely; just tell her your thoughts on the subject and be honest. Nothing bad can come of it.