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Alex909

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Now before I start this I know this is quite petty so if you wanna flame me go ahead. But any advice would be cool.

In History the seating plan got changed and I got sat next to this girl. 6 lessons in and I can make her laugh and she makes me laugh. Put it straight I fancy her but you don't wanna hear that. Now her friend sits on the other side of me but I dont talk to her. However I come into the lesson a minute late and her friend is sitting where I sit. Yeah yeah petty but that's my spot next to a girl I like which I'm trying to make like me! Now the teacher totally ignores her and dismisses the fact it goes boy,boy, girl, girl.

So does anyone have any idea on how to get the teacher to notice this so I can get back to my good seat? I don't wanna just go tell her I like this girl, please let me sit back there and I can't just take the seat or she'll know somethings up and I don't want her to know just yet. Pathetic and petty and I migjt of just wasted your time with the dilemma of a 16 year old kid but help would be appreciated.
 
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Meh might be easier to get into class before the other girl and take your seat and try to make it seem like you arent doing it on purpose else wise youll either give away that you want to sit next to her or that youre a prune and cant break the rules.
 
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lol bless

ok, make friends with her mate, that'll go down well with the girl you fancy (may even make her slightly jealous) and after you get in the friend-zone with the mate, let her know you like the girl and she might even help

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grow a pair and ask her for her number, and tbh if it fails, you dont have to sit next to her anymore so it'll save the embarrassment
 
Timotei

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If there is one thing I learned about teacher in my nearly 18 years of existence, it's that unless you really stick your head above the others, the teacher couldn't really give two shits about you, because to them you are one of the many retards the school buses in every day which causes them to draw a meager paycheck.
 
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If you don't really know the guy next to you, or you know him and you fill him in and he is ok with it, you might tell the teacher that you have problems with him and she might move you back, however if you are friends with the guy and the teacher knows this it might end badly, or you might get moved across the room so it isn't the best idea but it would have them notice the seating situation and the teacher might just move you back. Not the best idea but it could work.
 
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You might have to end up telling the girl (the girl who took your seat) that you fancy her friend and that you want to sit next to her (the girl you fancy). If you are friends with that girl and she will let you have your seat back then I would tell her. If not don't upset her because that might end up upsetting the girl you fancy.

I got not nothing on how to solve the problem though. It might have been a one off. You could always try getting to class first?
 
The Random One

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Just grow a pair and tell the girl you like her. She will then ask her friend not to take your seat herself. Well, that or say she does't want anything with you, which will then allow you to stop following a fruitless pursuit. It's a win-win situation! For very broad definitions of 'win'!
 
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Try harder? get to know her better? sit there before her friend does?

How about just flat out telling someone you like them? the beating around the bush crap is just wasting time.

Wait till college, i promise the seating wont be boy girl boy girl. Or even an upperclassmen in highschool, unless your school is just retarted.
 
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a) stop asking advice from forums for god sake mate you are going to have the shit ripped out of you...

b) man the hell up and just ask her out. girls like watching a guy they like stammer over them, they think its cute.

c) don't try to weasel your way back into your seat. you will annoy her friend at best and at worst have the whole class turn around to stare at you, then realise why you are making such a fuss and take the piss. you will be group mocked...

you like her, she probably likes you, it can't hurt to just ask "can i see you after school sometime?" or "hey are you doing anything after school?". basically you are just porcrastinating, you like spending time with her and at the moment you are figthing to find ways to do it without risking embarrassing yourself.

just do it!
 
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Furburt said:
To be honest, I'd just find another way of talking to the girl in question, otherwise you'll just seem really odd to everyone, jeopardizing your chances.

Anyway, I might as well inform you that secondary school (or high school, whatever it's called) romances rarely end well if you don't know the person outside of school. That's just personal experience, mind.
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I've been with my girlfriend for five years now and we're still going strong. We met in secondary school.

OT: like everyone else has said just talk to her outside of class.
 
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Aby_Z said:
Get to class early and sit where you normally do?
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This is the best advice I can offer, aside from growing a pair and asking the girl out. Otherwise you'll never get anywhere with her.
 
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Suiseiseki IRL said:
If there is one thing I learned about teacher in my nearly 18 years of existence, it's that unless you really stick your head above the others, the teacher couldn't really give two shits about you, because to them you are one of the many retards the school buses in every day which causes them to draw a meager paycheck.
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god people like you annoy me. yes be cynical about HRH, yes be cynical about George Bushs contiuned existance, but how the *uck has that comment helped?
 
teisjm

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Stop coming in late, and then she won't take your seat.

I don't think anyone would find it weird that you take the seat assigned to you by some seating plan.
 
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