People, what do you think if a girl hangs out with mostly guys?

[saoirse13]

So what the title says basically. what do you think if a girls friends are majority male? do you think it's bad and should be avoided. Do you think there is a problem with it? Or is a good thing?
same for guys. Whats your opinion on a guys friends being mainly female.

For me, the majority of my friends are male. I have a couple of female friends. But find sometimes that people have a problem with the idea that my best friend is male.

 

[Vault101]

hmmmm...its been a while since I had freinds , so....

when I was younger I used to ALWAYS hang out with guys..why not? their shits interesting, my best freinds were guys...I think once the teacher at school had asked some of the girls to come and "encourage" me to hang out with them

I dont rmemeber though so that may have not been the case, I was also freinds with girls

highschool I was freinds with girls because it was an all girl school...in fct for those few years i had little contact with guys, they became alien to me

now days...I dont know, I imagine I would be freinds with somone based on our common ground..rather than gender

 

[Launcelot111]

I have a cousin who hangs out with mostly guys and my super judgy family is of the opinion that it's because she's an attention whore who avoids female friends so that all the guys she's with focus on her. I think my family is partially right in this case, but I think that the details are specific enough to her that the same conclusion definitely shouldn't be extended to every girl with guy friends. If I had to stereotype, though, I'd say that many people would assume that the girl is an attention whore or that the guy with girl friends is gay. I personally think it's good to have some good opposite sex friends but that the girl/guy ratio isn't that important

 

[BathorysGraveland]

What I think? That she feels more comfortable with or around men than women. Or she simply has more male friends than female. Her sexuality may or may not have anything to do with it at all.

That's the first thing that comes to mind at any rate.

 

[JimB]

What do you think if the majority of a girl's friends are male?

I think it means she knows more men than women whose company she finds agreeable.

Do you think it's bad and should be avoided?

Only if the boys and girls in question still believe in cooties.

Sometimes people have a problem with the idea that my best friend is male.

What a weird thing to have an opinion about.

 

[Helmholtz Watson]

So what the title says basically. what do you think if a girls friends are majority male? do you think it's bad and should be avoided. Do you think there is a problem with it? Or is a good thing?
same for guys. Whats your opinion on a guys friends being mainly female.

For me, the majority of my friends are male. I have a couple of female friends. But find sometimes that people have a problem with the idea that my best friend is male.

People might assume that your a tomboy, gay, hate women, an attention whore, ect. Personally it depends of the person, some girls fit the adjectives I just gave, and some don't.

 

[saoirse13]

So what the title says basically. what do you think if a girls friends are majority male?

Either she's really kool, or she is a princess who manipulates guys and they are her toys. Most of the time its the former, occassionally the latter.

do you think it's bad and should be avoided. Do you think there is a problem with it? Or is a good thing?

It's fine, hang with who get along with.

same for guys. Whats your opinion on a guys friends being mainly female.

He's either gay or a really slick guy. Usually its the former, occassionally its the latter.

But find sometimes that people have a problem with the idea that my best friend is male.

Probably because, whether you know it or not, if your best friend isn't gay he is waiting for a chance to sleep with you.

Well my best friend is definately not gay. However, at the start of our friendship, we did have a drunken kiss. It was definately wrong and neither of us wanted it to happen again. To be honest we both completely regretted it. But it did make our friendship alot stronger.

 

[saoirse13]

I'm not really a tomboy, Though i do seem to have alot more shared interests with guys than girls. Don't get me wrong, I still have some female friends and one of which im extremely close to. But I find that sometimes girls can be more back-handed and sly when it comes to certain issues. I can't stand two-facedness (don't even think thats a word) and in the past I've found that girls would rather talk about someone behind their back than address whatever issue is bugging them to their face. If I have a problem with any of my guy mates then we can just come right out with it and say what our problem is and usually then the issue is dealt with. With girls grudges are formed and issues fester.
I'm not saying I'm perfect.

As for the attention whore thing, I've grew up with my cousin's who were mainly male. I lived with my grandmother, Grandad and uncle so maybe it has more to do with that for me. I guess for me I'm just more at ease when I'm hanging out with guys than I am with girls I fell like I have to try more with females.

At any case, through-out the years I've had to face issues where people accused me of being a "slut" or "using manipulator" for having friends that were male. I guess I am just curious to the general concencus on this topic.

 

[Vault101]

hmmmm...its been a while since I had freinds , so....

We should be friends =D

highschool I was freinds with girls because it was an all girl school...in fct for those few years i had little contact with guys, they became alien to me

...Even if I am an alien.

gaaaaaahhh! kill it! kill it with fire!...or water! like that movie I watched..you know the one with mad max in it

 

[TakeyB0y2]

I have a friend who, because of her hobbies (WoW, Magic The Gathering, and even Dungeons and Dragons) never really got along very well with other girls. I mean, she had female acquaintances and all, but you'd never really see her really hanging out with other girls unless it was for a school project. Not that it seemed to bother her, she said what's important is she's with people she actually has something in common with.

Oh right, didn't quite answer your question did I... Well... Why the heck not? If you get along with someone, why not pursue a friendship? Gender isn't really something one should regard for friendships.

 

[Vault101]

Noooooooooo, I don't want to die yet. I just wanted to be friends D=

they always say that...and then BAM face huggung chest bursting mess...its not worth it

or they wander around acting all cute and retarded and make a conection with that lonley kid and then they die and you think theyre dead but they come back and the govenemtn wants them so the lonley kids escaps on their bike and they make the bike fly and then

what was I saying again?

[quote/] Though I've never seen a movie with Mad Max. I'm not sure if I should feel bad about that.[/quote]

neither have I....I would but too depressing

 

[Rawne1980]

My wifes best friend is male .... most of her friends are male. If I was the jealous type i'd be worried but i'm not .... plus they know i'd hurt them if they did anything.

That said, my closest friends are 5 lads i've known since I was 3. We've been friends for nearly 29 years. There is a lass that's been "one of the lads" for around 16 years now. She comes out drinking with us, she can pretty much hold her own there, and she has a fantastic sense of humour. She fit right in, even if none of us can remember how we actually met her.

At first she was the "little sister" of the group and we felt we had to look after her. Now she pretty much is the big sister, she kind of looks after us.

I hope no one has a problem with her or i'd be having a few words in their shell like ears as to why.

Though I've never seen a movie with Mad Max.

You've never seen a movie with Mel Gibson in?

I'm incredibly shocked.