Personal safety, Help!

[AngloDoom]

I assume that you're not the only person working in this part of town, in the same shop in town, at the same time. If the area is really as bad as you say, try to meet up with someone part-way there or see if they'll be happy giving you a lift. I know you might shrink at the idea of telling colleagues that you're not happy walking about the street on your own, but if it's really that bad a place I'm sure they'll understand.

Other than that, just walk with confidence, look alert, and don't preoccupy yourself with headphones or your phone. There's no real go-to way of avoiding trouble outside of increasing the numbers, but there's plenty of ways of making yourself a target.

Also, I cannot emphasise this enough, do not go carrying about a knife. If you're getting attacked, it'll likely be more than one person and - considering the word 'stab' came up in your post at least twice - you're not going to want things to escalate. If you find yourself in that situation fucking throw your wallet at them. Do not try and Bruce Lee your way out of a mugging unless you're secretly wearing chain-mail.

 

[freaper]

Cardio, Bill! And get to know where you should and shouldn't go. Talk to your colleagues, etc.

 

[Kargathia]

As much as it might tempt you, walking around with a weapon stashed could land you in more trouble than it's worth! If you can, try and work on your cardio so you can run like fuck if challenged. It might sound wimpy but running like your bum is on fire and shouting for help is the first thing they teach you in self-defence classes.

Speaking of, see if you can take a few self-defence classes - they are pretty common and if anything else might help you be a bit more confident.

Avoid walking around alone if you can and stick to well-lit areas where there are people around. As other people have said, if an area is oddly desolate / devoid of people then there is usually a good reason.

Walking tall / looking tough is all well and good but it could also mark you out as a target just as much as looking terrified and jumping at every little noise. Not what you wanted to hear, I know but I wont lie to you. Brainless gits who mug / pick on people will use ANY excuse to pick on someone.

I hope that your job goes well and that you stay safe!

Mostly this, but I'd like to add that if you do take classes in self-defence: don't rely on them overly much. Contrary to what the movies lead you to believe: even if you're a professional fighter, you're probably going to lose a 5v1.

 

[II2]

KNIFE IS BAD IDEA FOR SELF DEFENSE

Couple reasons:
A) It's a lethal threat and if you have to use it, it's a lethal weapon... and while logically it's nice to have one if someone else does, you don't want to be in a knife fight, if personal safety is something you're after.
B) It's really hard to justify the use of a knife in self defense, legally. Incidents with edged weapons are a lot more likely to go to court if the police get involved.

I think this is pretty well universally true, especially so for some areas.

Get some martial arts training and be physically fit; it will appear in how you project yourself. Its my experience that thugs see right through a pretend 'macho walk', or might rise to challenge it. Beyond that, avoid confrontations and if forced into a fight, your best course is to stun and run. Strike quickly and move with force, then leg it.

Finally, if you're *determined* to arm yourself I'd suggest a weighty flashlight, PD spray, or hard stick.

*One edit, regarding Knives. They're wonderful tools and I'm not against having one about you, just don't get it involved in violence.

 

[Combustion Kevin]

get a friend to hang around, muggers mostly pick targets that are alone, plus, it'll make your shift less boring when things quiet down.

 

[Guffe]

Well, find out the worst "bad places/routes" in town and avoid them.
Drive to work, park the car in some workplace parking spot or a place with surveillance cameras, lock the car door and walk the safest / swiftest way to work.
What you can do is take pre emptive meassurements like said above, avoid known bad spots. I mean in any town you can happen to be the wrong person at the wrong place at the wrong time. That happens all the time, just because crime rate is a bit higher there doesn't mean you'll be struck immediately by crime when coming into town.
Hell, the high crime rate might just be because people report the crimes more often than in other towns or the cops are a lot more effective than in other towns and hence people get the idea that it's a crime center.
But yeah, good luck with your new job! and as you said, you might be a bit over dramatic about it? ;D

 

[UniversalRonin]

KNIFE IS BAD IDEA FOR SELF DEFENSE

Couple reasons:
A) It's a lethal threat and if you have to use it, it's a lethal weapon... and while logically it's nice to have one if someone else does, you don't want to be in a knife fight, if personal safety is something you're after.
B) It's really hard to justify the use of a knife in self defense, legally. Incidents with edged weapons are a lot more likely to go to court if the police get involved.

*One edit, regarding Knives. They're wonderful tools and I'm not against having one about you, just don't get it involved in violence.

Here here. I have a swiss army knife that I use at work (and end up needing it most days) and keep it in a holder on my belt, a knife can be an invaluable tool at the right times, just as the screwdriver, scissors and most of all the bottle opener (I don't carry it around me on days off, obviously- no need for it). Even if I was mugged while wearing it, say on the walk home, would I pull it out? No. Not ever. Exactly for the reasons you stated.

 

[Varrdy]

Mostly this, but I'd like to add that if you do take classes in self-defence: don't rely on them overly much. Contrary to what the movies lead you to believe: even if you're a professional fighter, you're probably going to lose a 5v1.

Good point - I could have been more specific. A few classes can't hurt but legging it while baying like a mating stag is the best, if not the most manly option. People may take the piss but at least you still have all your teeth!

 

[Sovvolf]

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Possibly the best piece of advice in this thread and sadly sums up and makes what I was hoping to post completely obsolete. Just try and be sensible and level headed, keep yourself to yourself and use a bit of common sense and you should be fine.

Though just to reinforce what most are saying here, carrying a knife is a stupid idea. Aside from everything said, if they catch you with a knife or you produce one and they manage to get a hold of it, they're more than likely going to use it against you and will probably seriously injure/kill you with it.

 

[Varrdy]

Something else I forgot to mention that I used to do - I carried another wallet and phone with me. The wallet had expired cards in and about £20 in cash. I also threw in some business cards and other stuff to make it look like my main wallet. The other phone was not too old but not worth much either. It had a pay as you go SIM card in it and it worked. Again I loaded it with fake contacts and all that jazz.

I never was mugged, thankfully but the idea was that I handed over the "fake" wallet and phone as most muggers just waved a knife in your face and demanded you hand them over. Worst case is that you lose a bit of money and / or a phone you don't rely on or has personal information on. Of course the risk was that if they searched your pockets they'd find the real items and get pissy but I was told it's rare in most cases.

I dunno if this was a wise move or not, I just did it when in a rough town for a while. Never had to find out if it worked or not, thankfully. It could be a bit of a ball-ache carrying around 2 wallets and 2 phones but I figured the payoff would be worth it!

 

[Sovvolf]

Mostly this, but I'd like to add that if you do take classes in self-defence: don't rely on them overly much. Contrary to what the movies lead you to believe: even if you're a professional fighter, you're probably going to lose a 5v1.

Personally think taking self-defense classes is stupid. Too many poor/stupid/false teachers teaching stuff that would probably get you killed in an actual confrontation. Not to mention, taking a few self-defense classes isn't going to solve anything, you'll more than likely forget everything taught as soon as the adrenaline and fear takes over, or you simply don't have the skill to pull it off. Also would give you a false sense of self confidence.

Though do indeed take up some form of martial arts, I can't stress that enough, it's confident building, gets you fit and will help you out in such a situation. Just shop around for a good gym. Look for places that put a strong emphasis into sparring (which I'd argue as being the most important aspect of training, regardless of the style.) and has a good history. Just note that it's not an option for the short term. It can take years of dedicated training before you can use it with proficiency.

 

[CD-R]

Are you allowed to carry mace in the UK? Mace works pretty good.

 

[Vegosiux]

Silly question, but how does one "walk confidently"? Fast? Slowly? Strutting around like you own the place? Or just not giving a rat's ass?

 

[Kennetic]

Something else I forgot to mention that I used to do - I carried another wallet and phone with me. The wallet had expired cards in and about £20 in cash. I also threw in some business cards and other stuff to make it look like my main wallet. The other phone was not too old but not worth much either. It had a pay as you go SIM card in it and it worked. Again I loaded it with fake contacts and all that jazz.

I never was mugged, thankfully but the idea was that I handed over the "fake" wallet and phone as most muggers just waved a knife in your face and demanded you hand them over. Worst case is that you lose a bit of money and / or a phone you don't rely on or has personal information on. Of course the risk was that if they searched your pockets they'd find the real items and get pissy but I was told it's rare in most cases.

I dunno if this was a wise move or not, I just did it when in a rough town for a while. Never had to find out if it worked or not, thankfully. It could be a bit of a ball-ache carrying around 2 wallets and 2 phones but I figured the payoff would be worth it!

^This is probably the most practical advice here.

OT: I personally don't carry much cash on me and I concealed carry but I live in the US so I'm good to go. I vote carry a false wallet and phone for your case or a heavy flashlight.

 

[UniversalRonin]

Silly question, but how does one "walk confidently"? Fast? Slowly? Strutting around like you own the place? Or just not giving a rat's ass?

I'd say the latter. In my eyes, the main part of 'walking confidently' would be not looking skittish. Just look like you naturally belong there.

 

[sextus the crazy]

Carry something threatening on your person, like a knife and try to appear confident. Pretty much do everything in your power to look like a bad target.

No, no, no. Worst advice ever. Police catch you with a knife and you're fucked, they don't care if it's for show and you don't plan on stabbing anyone. Police find a knife on you and you can kiss management chances goodbye, they don't take that stuff lightly because of how bad knife crime is in some areas.

So... I'm going to guess that carrying knives around in the UK is a much worse crime than in the US. Good to know.

 

[Saltyk]

Well, all I can suggest is a few things. I am not familar with what your local law says about any of these things, so I will make several suggestions.

Park, if not close, within sight of your store. That way you can see if anyone is hanging around your car and can take measures to protect yourself. Like calling the police, if you deem it necessary.

If you are closing always ensure there is at least one other person closing with you. Closing is the worst shift for such things as crooks will know when you are leaving. Probably best not to buy a game to take home at this time, either. You don't want to have obvious valuables on you at this time.

If you can, buy a gun and get a concealed carry permit. This assumes you would be able to take it into your store, which you should check into first, and that your country even allows this. I know some people here will say that carrying a gun is a bad idea, but ignore them. If you can, this would probably be a good idea.

Failing the gun, due to laws, or unwillingness, pepper spray may be a valid alternative. It's nonlethal and generally effective enough to give you a chance to escape.

Finally, if nothing else, carry small amounts of money, avoid carrying credit or debit cards (at least in your wallet) and just give them your wallet and any money in it. Can also save you, if someone mugs you in to store during business hours. Sounds like a cowardly way out, but it may save your life. Immediately following any such event, call the police. Only problem I can see with this is that it could make your or your store employees a target for future muggings, being an easy mark.

Beyond that. Good luck. Hopefully, you never need to worry about any such things.

 

[Mr.BadExample]

Have you considered soiling yourself? The attacker will feel such revulsion that he'll flee into the night without harming you. Once you've trained yourself to vomit, defecate, and urinate on command you'll be untouchable.

 

[the doom cannon]

I would recommend not carrying any sort of weapon, do cardio, and carry a second wallet with a bit of cash in it. If you're in a bad spot with someone demanding money, toss the wallet at them, and proceed to run away

 

[xmbts]

Carry something threatening on your person, like a knife and try to appear confident. Pretty much do everything in your power to look like a bad target.

and then you end up looking like a rival gang member and gte riddled with bullets.

go for the other option, look poor as fuck.

no one robbs a homeless man, but mind that some like to kill them, though.

It's the UK, if he gets riddled with bullets then he's done a lot worse then look scary. xD

OT: My advice, park as close to the store as possible if you're working at night bring a flashlight and maybe some pepper spray.