I definitely agree with this, I've always been more of a soloist when it comes to gaming, if I cant do it by myself I feel a bit jaded and irritable, I want to be as great as I can be without having to rely on others but still talk with them and share my progress, my tricks and tips that helped me be like that.
With any luck if they can do the same then fine and dandy it makes teaming up all the more fun because two soloists together can cause greater damage in the same situation than any number of people preferring to play with a team.
As an example, I can relatively easily solo Lost Planet 2, a game more widely made for the Multiplayer experience even though single player is possible. My friend "drkmn" is capable of the same. When we play together we just about decimate everything to the point that its highly unfair to have us teaming up.
In MMO's I like to see how far I can go, if things get tough I know I have to hang back and think up a new strategy for dealing with greater numbers of opposition. But I almost always tend to figure it out and find myself capable of breaking the mold of playing with others.
The only time I ever care for Multiplayer games is when I have a good friend to play it with and simply enjoy it for what it is. Its not about getting items, its not about who gets what weapons or who has a better/stronger character. We enjoy the fun we're having and socialize with it.
Sometimes its too complex to understand if you want to play alone or with others, or at least for me, sometimes I like it, sometimes I don't. I definitely don't enjoy having to deal with some of the most stupid, vile and nasty people int he world in online games, you never know what kind of horrid, vulgar people you'll come across, but then you find those lucky few who actually are a joy to play with.
Its these horrid kinds of people that make me prefer to play solo, less I have to deal with their stupidity, the happier I am. But my friends and the few nicer players who let me enjoy multiplayer. Its only a pity that nice players are outnumbered by pathetic, childish, immature brats as old as 19 years and older, and if you don't conform to their vile attitudes and ill behavior they turn on you like a pack of hounds on a lion cub.
Wow, I'm totally verging on rage about this, lol, I'll end it there for now because I could easily go on and on XD