If your friend has this kind of reation to you touching that chiar, you probably didn't want to be touching that chair. Who knows what unspeakable acts he does in and with that chair.
Poll: Am I in the Wrong Here?
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Airhumping anything is funny to a certain extent, leaving out the morbid ones ofcourse. I will be laughing at a good airhump all of my life and dreead the day it loses it's comedy to me.krazykidd said:
To be honest, this is the kind of prankery I actually expect a group of male friends to do, regardless of age.
About your friend, I'll go along with a few other replies and say he probably had something else on his plate that day, which does in no way excuse the attack.
Depending on howstrong/deep your friendship is, I would say either confront him with what he did and get some insight to any problems he might have had that day, or, alternatively, just let it slide....
Your friend is abit of a jerk.
I don't think you were completely wrong.
But its a fucking chair. And you had just saved him money by calling a friend to boost his car, where as he would have had to call the auto club or a tow truck.
Yep jerk.
I don't think you were completely wrong.
But its a fucking chair. And you had just saved him money by calling a friend to boost his car, where as he would have had to call the auto club or a tow truck.
Yep jerk.
That's what you would do. If they have been fine with this for four years don't you think it would be well established that doing something as trivial as air humping a chair is a light-hearted joke, rather than something that warrants an agressive tantrum? Sure it's not the most mature thing in the world, and I personally have only one friend who has the tendency to actually do that. One that (regrettably) I rarely meet nowdays since I moved out of town. Not everyone will have the same degree of tolerance of how their stuff is treated by other people.SciMal said:
Okay, unless the OP has noticed some telltale signs of this, I would say it's the responsibility of his friend to tell him what's not okay. He had 4 years to do that, and it's perfectly reasonable to say "hey, don't treat my stuff like that", sternly if necessary. THAT should have been the moment of truth, not 4 years later where hidden tension is built up (which seems to be your assumption of the case). Responding like that was perfectly uncalled for.
No matter how douchey your friend is, you kinda were in the wrong. You provoked him, he got pissed. Your fault.
With that being said, your friend sounds like a total mess of bad words in himself. He has the right to be mad, but he's a total sociopath and hypocrite since he acts the same way you have.
With that being said, your friend sounds like a total mess of bad words in himself. He has the right to be mad, but he's a total sociopath and hypocrite since he acts the same way you have.
Hey, i also once broke my friends chair, and all he did was laugh hysterically. Tho i admit, i really did break it in a weird and funny way, and it wasn`t the newest chair.kasperbbs said:
Also, i have to admit, that had to be a pretty damn precious chair if you weren`t allowed to even touch it. I mean, most of my friends allow me to sit on the comfiest chair there is when I´m at their place. And he did get a bit too mad, but maybe he had a bad day, or had something in his mind that was making him feel bad. Who knows. Tho he did overreact a bit.
Well I'd say it's probably worth saving, as they're apparently close enough to have a bunch of in-jokes.Sammaul said:
I'd say you aren't the tight friends you might assume, the right to insult your mates is earned and if there are misunderstanding like this you aren't all on the same page.
So dial it down and build up the relationship or find other friends.
So dial it down and build up the relationship or find other friends.
If you need to ask, the answer is most likely ye...
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Huh. You know, no, I don't think you were. That's definitely an overreaction. It's just a chair. I mean, you shouldn't have pushed it, that's for sure, but he responded far worse than what was even close to being necessary.
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...Huh. You know, no, I don't think you were. That's definitely an overreaction. It's just a chair. I mean, you shouldn't have pushed it, that's for sure, but he responded far worse than what was even close to being necessary.
Yes.
*actually reads post*
Meh, it's hard to tell what context was really there. After all, there's three sides to every story; yours, mine and the truth.
*actually reads post*
Meh, it's hard to tell what context was really there. After all, there's three sides to every story; yours, mine and the truth.
As crass as that may have been, what you did warrants nothing even in the same universe as his reaction, even more-so because you guys apparently do this to each other all the time.
I conclude, with the medical knowledge provided to me by fuck all, that your friend belongs in a straight-jacket.
I conclude, with the medical knowledge provided to me by fuck all, that your friend belongs in a straight-jacket.
You probably shouldn't have done it as he told you not to, but his reaction was way over the top. So yeah, either he's had a very bad day or your friend is batshit insane.