Go to any person on this Earth and say: "I left my car without surveillance with its doors open and keys in the ignition and it got stolen!" They will respond with "Why did you leave it like that?" or equivalent.WeepingAngels said:Really? Asking for it?McElroy said:Isn't hotwiring a modern car almost impossible nowadays? If the owner leaves the door open AND the keys inside then that I'd call asking for it. Otherwise no, but it's an unnecessary risk they're taking.
Ok, let's take a small mom and pop store and this store doesn't have any fancy security tags and detection devices. Does that mean they are asking for shoplifting?
Let's say I leave my lawn mower in my yard, it's a push mower so no key but I do have a fence. That fence latches but there is no lock. I am asking for my lawn mower to be stolen?
How can people think like this?
Appeal to Popularity? Just ask anyone, they'll agree with me is your argument? Ok well whatever.McElroy said:Go to any person on this Earth and say: "I left my car without surveillance with its doors open and keys in the ignition and it got stolen!" They will respond with "Why did you leave it like that?" or equivalent.WeepingAngels said:Really? Asking for it?McElroy said:Isn't hotwiring a modern car almost impossible nowadays? If the owner leaves the door open AND the keys inside then that I'd call asking for it. Otherwise no, but it's an unnecessary risk they're taking.
Ok, let's take a small mom and pop store and this store doesn't have any fancy security tags and detection devices. Does that mean they are asking for shoplifting?
Let's say I leave my lawn mower in my yard, it's a push mower so no key but I do have a fence. That fence latches but there is no lock. I am asking for my lawn mower to be stolen?
How can people think like this?
Broadly speaking, there are always people who will blame victims of accidents or crimes or even cheer at their misfortune because they took a risk, which of course is kinda shitty as there are risks everywhere in everything we do. However, my example has an absurdly high risk that can be mitigated by following advice that literally everyone would share.
How is "absurdly high risk that can be mitigated by following advice that literally everyone would share" in any way controversial? I don't even think any insurance plan would cover that.WeepingAngels said:Appeal to Popularity? Just ask anyone, they'll agree with me is your argument? Ok well whatever.McElroy said:Go to any person on this Earth and say: "I left my car without surveillance with its doors open and keys in the ignition and it got stolen!" They will respond with "Why did you leave it like that?" or equivalent.
Broadly speaking, there are always people who will blame victims of accidents or crimes or even cheer at their misfortune because they took a risk, which of course is kinda shitty as there are risks everywhere in everything we do. However, my example has an absurdly high risk that can be mitigated by following advice that literally everyone would share.
Hotwiring may be, but some of the newer cars with their keyless entry / ignition systems have some crazy security vulnerabilities.McElroy said:Isn't hotwiring a modern car almost impossible nowadays? If the owner leaves the door open AND the keys inside then that I'd call asking for it. Otherwise no, but it's an unnecessary risk they're taking.
Yikes. Sometimes I'm surprised how blunt the Internet can be. But you hit the nail on the head though. I wasn't looking to invalidate his or my position on this to be fair. I think I did surprise him when I said the thief is to blame.somonels said:I bet he's the friend who likes the "Chicken or Egg" paradox.
Whose fault was it the car got stolen? The thief.
Whose fault was it the car got stolen? The thief.
Who is going to get BLAMED? The owner. Because of course someone is going to steal it. It's only natural. He must have not really cared enough about it or secretly wanted it stolen. Probably a scam for money or drama.
Find better friends or make sure you don't drink too much in public or dress provocatively.
WeepingAngels said:It's like when we blame parents for letting their daughters go to college knowing the high college rape numbers...oh waitDreiko said:If theft is the normal state of affairs and the owner is aware of it, the owner. If theft is a bizarre accident which almost never happens, the thief.
The key question is "how likely is it for an unlocked car to be stolen". If, despite knowing the likelihood is very high, you allow your car to be unlocked out of some mistaken sense of arbitrary human morality of "stealing is wrong" then you are an idiot who doesn't realize the limited scope of social contract when in a world that doesn't have mind control.
It's kinda like why letting your kids walk to school by themselves in broad daylight is fine but letting them walk at night in the middle of a red light district would likely net you in jail for child abandonment/endangerment. The same laws apply in both stretches of road but it's not quiiiite that simple.
It was made vague on purpose. Possibly my friend wanted to debate wether or not people would be willing to take in opportunity to better themselves even at the expense of others. Kinda falls apart when you consider factors like yours and the very fact that stealing is a crime or at least a more serious crime than negligencetotheendofsin said:There are a few factors here that aren't brought up, is it a nicer car that's more likely to be stolen than a crappy car? Did the owner leave it unlocked in an area that often has cars stolen?
We don't blame the daughter either. Do you?Dreiko said:WeepingAngels said:It's like when we blame parents for letting their daughters go to college knowing the high college rape numbers...oh waitDreiko said:If theft is the normal state of affairs and the owner is aware of it, the owner. If theft is a bizarre accident which almost never happens, the thief.
The key question is "how likely is it for an unlocked car to be stolen". If, despite knowing the likelihood is very high, you allow your car to be unlocked out of some mistaken sense of arbitrary human morality of "stealing is wrong" then you are an idiot who doesn't realize the limited scope of social contract when in a world that doesn't have mind control.
It's kinda like why letting your kids walk to school by themselves in broad daylight is fine but letting them walk at night in the middle of a red light district would likely net you in jail for child abandonment/endangerment. The same laws apply in both stretches of road but it's not quiiiite that simple.
Unless the daughter is some kind of exception, she'd be an adult by the time she is in college so it'd be her choice, not the parent's. Not blaming them when their daughter is an adult who makes her own choices is obviously the normal reaction.
That holds true in a city, but if you live in a rural or even medium sized town, it's not as true. Car thefts out in the country probably consist of "hey, there's a car. I need one of those." And even then, that's pretty rare, seeing as how out in the open everything is, and given how many people have guns.Dirty Hipsters said:Sure, someone might have a reason to break into or steal your car specifically, and if that happens you really can't prevent it, but most criminals don't specifically target a person. Most criminals are the kind of people who just go down a row of cars and try all the drivers' side doors until they find one that's unlocked. Very minor preventative measures can and do deter criminals if those criminals are lazy.
No, since merely going to college isn't the same as being raped and if a woman knows the statistics and chooses to go then it is logical to assume she is ready to protect herself more so than someone who might be ignorant.WeepingAngels said:We don't blame the daughter either. Do you?Dreiko said:WeepingAngels said:It's like when we blame parents for letting their daughters go to college knowing the high college rape numbers...oh waitDreiko said:If theft is the normal state of affairs and the owner is aware of it, the owner. If theft is a bizarre accident which almost never happens, the thief.
The key question is "how likely is it for an unlocked car to be stolen". If, despite knowing the likelihood is very high, you allow your car to be unlocked out of some mistaken sense of arbitrary human morality of "stealing is wrong" then you are an idiot who doesn't realize the limited scope of social contract when in a world that doesn't have mind control.
It's kinda like why letting your kids walk to school by themselves in broad daylight is fine but letting them walk at night in the middle of a red light district would likely net you in jail for child abandonment/endangerment. The same laws apply in both stretches of road but it's not quiiiite that simple.
Unless the daughter is some kind of exception, she'd be an adult by the time she is in college so it'd be her choice, not the parent's. Not blaming them when their daughter is an adult who makes her own choices is obviously the normal reaction.
How does the rest of the world manage without "I will be raped in college if I act like a normal person" being an option one should consider? Like, instead of a rare anomaly? Rhetorical question.Dreiko said:Doing things like college parties and drinking alcohol and stuff is where most of the rapes occur and you can go to college and do none of that stuff just fine.
Ok, so you only victim blame if the girl willingly goes to a party?Dreiko said:No, since merely going to college isn't the same as being raped and if a woman knows the statistics and chooses to go then it is logical to assume she is ready to protect herself more so than someone who might be ignorant.WeepingAngels said:We don't blame the daughter either. Do you?Dreiko said:WeepingAngels said:It's like when we blame parents for letting their daughters go to college knowing the high college rape numbers...oh waitDreiko said:If theft is the normal state of affairs and the owner is aware of it, the owner. If theft is a bizarre accident which almost never happens, the thief.
The key question is "how likely is it for an unlocked car to be stolen". If, despite knowing the likelihood is very high, you allow your car to be unlocked out of some mistaken sense of arbitrary human morality of "stealing is wrong" then you are an idiot who doesn't realize the limited scope of social contract when in a world that doesn't have mind control.
It's kinda like why letting your kids walk to school by themselves in broad daylight is fine but letting them walk at night in the middle of a red light district would likely net you in jail for child abandonment/endangerment. The same laws apply in both stretches of road but it's not quiiiite that simple.
Unless the daughter is some kind of exception, she'd be an adult by the time she is in college so it'd be her choice, not the parent's. Not blaming them when their daughter is an adult who makes her own choices is obviously the normal reaction.
I in general wouldn't blame people for merely taking some risk in their life since almost nothing is safe and you can't spend your life inside a tank just to be safe. The issue is how big of a risk it is you're taking. Merely going to college isn't particularly risky. Doing things like college parties and drinking alcohol and stuff is where most of the rapes occur and you can go to college and do none of that stuff just fine.
One person is naive and feels very secure in his environment.Story said:A person purposely leaves his car unlocked and it gets stolen, who is to blame?
You should ask your friend then why the owner was not charged with grand theft auto? I'm sure he can come up with a good reason.Story said:I said it was the person who stole it and he said it was the person who did not lock the car.