As a guy we are generally stereotyped as only liking casual sex. While there are some girls I'm interested in only in a sexual way (usually because I don't like their personality or they are CRAZY) I tend to be in a situation where I would prefer sex, in a committed relationship. Don't get me wrong there's "hot" people I want and not to date, but I seem to idealize good love.
Background, divorced parents, saw my Dad be a player; raised by Mom who had failed relationships. So I am also wary about dating the wrong person, definitely don't want a baby with a "booty call". How influential do you think upbringing is towards people's view of these?
I am a college student and it seems like lots of girls just want casual sex as opposed to relationships (in spite of what society says). That's even more popular among guys. So I just want to see peoples view on this, see if I really am the only guy who wants love on the side of vagina, etc.
-This is not to say I'm some sort of "nice guy woe is me" there's girls I have unfairly led on because BOOBS while I simultaneously hate facing the same behavior.
Don't get too mad about the poll options I'm joking.
(Sorry if I'm making too many threads, hope this is universal and not a "get out of here with your 18 year old venting" moment)
Background, divorced parents, saw my Dad be a player; raised by Mom who had failed relationships. So I am also wary about dating the wrong person, definitely don't want a baby with a "booty call". How influential do you think upbringing is towards people's view of these?
I am a college student and it seems like lots of girls just want casual sex as opposed to relationships (in spite of what society says). That's even more popular among guys. So I just want to see peoples view on this, see if I really am the only guy who wants love on the side of vagina, etc.
-This is not to say I'm some sort of "nice guy woe is me" there's girls I have unfairly led on because BOOBS while I simultaneously hate facing the same behavior.
Don't get too mad about the poll options I'm joking.
(Sorry if I'm making too many threads, hope this is universal and not a "get out of here with your 18 year old venting" moment)