Poll: Appropriate physical affection between heterosexual men.

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Nieroshai

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I only "know" based on observation because I'm bisexual and treat all members of either gender very similarly, but it looks like hugs are OCCASIONALLY okay in US culture, cheek kissing is okay overseas and hugging is mainstream, but any farther looks gay regardless.
 

Dark Knifer

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Completely dependent on the individuals. Hugging another man might be really weird for some but fine with others. So you can't have a generalized perception like this, because perception is the mother of deception after all.

[small]Always wanted to say that in context...[/small]
 

Jaime_Wolf

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How much intimacy is "appropriate": however the fuck much they want.
How much intamacy can they exhibit before it becomes sexual in the US: holding hands. Hugging between close friends and family is generally accepted and even hugging between relative strangers is pretty accepted depending on one's community and the circles in which one moves.
 

Damien Granz

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Dags90 said:
So an article [http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/42672313/ns/today-relationships/] about a brouhaha over two basketball players being photographed holding hands made me wonder what this forum thinks about man on man physical intimacy. Standards vary widely between countries, and it's always interesting to hear different perspectives.

The poll isn't so much about what is appropriate as it is about how much intimacy two (let's presume heterosexual) men can have without it taking on a clear sexual connotation. From what I gather, the U.S. is probably one of the most conservative countries in this regard, which isn't particularly surprising. Not just because of homophobia, but also general attitudes about personal space. In fact two Ecuadorian immigrants were beaten, one to death, after being mistaken for a gay couple a few years ago in NYC.[footnote]http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-20009167-504083.html[/footnote]

I know whenever I visit other countries, I often find myself asking "Gay or European/Canadian?".

Edit: Yay! My poll didn't break.

Further edits: Feel free to include scenarios in which behaviors which would otherwise be considered too much affection are permissible.
Whatever they're comfortable with.

If they wanna have man sex and still say they primarily dig the chicks, go right ahead.
 

iNsAnEHAV0C

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Dfskelleton said:
I'm pretty comfortable with a manly hug and all below, but anything above that is a little weird for me.
Also:
iNsAnEHAV0C said:
Brothers don't shake hands...Brothers gotta hug
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hahaha.... YES!
I was actually having a pretty crappy day today so thank you for that