It's pretty equal, I mean if you listen to the laymen, male or female they both see X, normally the opposite sex. I worked as an agony uncle for a long time and human psychology and interaction is something I study a lot so I've been in and out of this world so much...
Simply put, neither sex is really that complicated. We're not, as sexes, fascinatingly difficult to understand. As people, hells yeah we're complicated, maddeningly so.
But yeah, neither sex as a whole seems particularly good at discerning the other one, as a whole. There are plenty of individuals on both sides who have a good grasp but generally it's about even.
Personally I still don't see it as difficult, not trying to come off as an elitist douche but seriously, I guess I was lucky with how I was brought up because I've pretty much always 'got' girls as well as I've 'got' guys.
Simply put, neither sex is really that complicated. We're not, as sexes, fascinatingly difficult to understand. As people, hells yeah we're complicated, maddeningly so.
But yeah, neither sex as a whole seems particularly good at discerning the other one, as a whole. There are plenty of individuals on both sides who have a good grasp but generally it's about even.
Personally I still don't see it as difficult, not trying to come off as an elitist douche but seriously, I guess I was lucky with how I was brought up because I've pretty much always 'got' girls as well as I've 'got' guys.