Poll: Beauty or Personality?

[heyheysg]

If you had a choice between an interesting but average looking girl or a cute but nice/boring girl. Which would you choose?

Or wait for a cute and interesting girl?

If you choose the 1st two choices is it considered lowering your standards?

Totally not based off my life...ahem..

 

[Tartarga]

Personality, I wouldnt want to date someone who I had nothing in common with or was just boring.

 

[vacuumbrand]

She doesn't have to be gorgeous, but as long as our personalities align and she doesn't look like a train wreck, I'm down.

 

[vamp rocks]

i said both... i would my boyfriend to be like... at least like.. average looking... but personality does play a huuuuuge role in it.. i couldnt date someone boring...

 

[Cpt. Red]

Both, but personality takes priority...

But now I see that you ask a different question in your post so then I would definitely have to say the "interesting but average looking girl"...

 

[El Poncho]

I would like them to look a little bit beautiful atleast and a good personality.

 

[Eleuthera]

so... interesting but average looking or cute but nice?

Can I pick both? There really are no negative attributes here, I'd hardly call average looking or nice a bad thing.

If the choice is ugly with a personality of beautiful but braindead I'd probably pick the interesting one.

 

[LongAndShort]

I'm not going to lie and say "I only care about personality" Relationships are based on mutual attraction of the body and soul. Or (after i said that i need to say this in order to keep my man-card) I'd like a girl with a nice pair of tits and a broad, humorous mind.

 

[TriggerUnhappy]

Both, personality matters most of all, but at the same time I need to be at least attracted to the girl.
Otherwise, it's just a friendship and not a relationship.

 

[Dys]

A measure of both is necissary. She doesn't have to be a knock out, nor does she have to share all of my interests, but I wouldn't abide a relationship that does not satisfy both physical and emotion requirements.

 

[Et3rnalLegend64]

It's not that hard to find a decently good looking girl who has a really nice personality. The problem is asking her out. (personality takes priority btw)

 

[Jedoro]

Both are important, but if I had to choose between those, I'd take the interesting but average-looking girl.

 

[LockHeart]

It's a combination of both, we need to be mutually interested on a personal level, but there needs to be a physical attraction too.

 

[wewontdie11]

I wouldn't enter a relationship with somebody who had all the conversational skills of a dishcloth. Looks would be nice too but personality is more important.

 

[Jadak]

That's any easy choice, nothing wrong with being average looking.

Now, if the choice was interesting but ugly, I'm not so sure.

 

[cainx10a]

Most beautiful people I have known are beautiful on the inside as well, so I'll go for both.

 

[Arkhangelsk]

Personality. I don't want to be with an uninteresting girl. But looks have a significant part in it. So a little of both.

 

[CaptainCrunch]

Depends on the situation. In the modern era of sexuality (which really hasn't come as far as we'd like to think), choosing between Beauty and Personality comes down to a point of monogamous marriage. It's a question representative of modern social insecurities, where marriage is the only way to ensure happiness, yet divorce rates are at an all-time high.

If you're not ready for marriage, go for beauty. You won't have any reason to be disappointed if things don't work out, because that wasn't your plan in the first place.

If you are ready for a life with only one person, or have a very conservative mindset regarding sexuality, go for personality. The ability to interact with someone on an intimate level is far more useful in this situation.

 

[Talendra]

I chose both, because who would not want both? That being said, I could quite easily date an average looking but interesting person, nut a drop dead gorgeous girl with a boring personality would be another story.

 

[Woodsey]

Looks - personality is a bonus. Besides, I wouldn't really be looking to have a good ol' conversation with them.