I recently read an article on domestic violence, and was a little annoyed to see that every case mentioned involved violence by a abusive husband against a defenceless wife.
It got me thinking about the way gender politics affect society's perception of violence, and led me to sites like this one [http://www.oneinthree.com.au/].
Now I've never been married, but my sister could get very violent when we were both teenagers (17-19).
One time for example, she attempted to stab me with a rusty screwdriver after we'd been mouthing off at each other. I grabbed her arm to restrain her, so she bit my wrist as hard as she could (leaving an ugly scar that's still there today).
What could I have done? Without using considerable force or hitting her back I mean (which I didn't, I just stood there like an idiot and let her bite me because I didn't know what to do).
My mum is a die-hard feminist, and used to yell at me as a little kid if I ever touched my sister even a little roughly (as kids do). Although my sister was bigger than me at the time and wasn't afraid to get physical herself, I was always the one blamed and told "never to lay hands on a girl", something I've stuck to throughout my entire life without a second thought. I've never raised a hand to anyone, not counting Krav Maga classes.
I remember sitting next to this massive girl in primary school (biggest kid in the class), and being punched randomly because "I wasn't allowed to hit her back", which she thought was a great laugh. And this creepy fucking girl I sat next to in high school who had a crush on me and used to stab my arm with sharp pencils until I bled, just for shits and giggles.
Can you imagine the uproar if our genders had been reversed? Yet the teachers tolerated it...
Women these days seem all too ready to employ violence against men, maliciously or not. Whether it's just a pinch between friends, a sharp slap after taking offence to something, or kicking a guy hard in the balls (which they often consider funny), a lot of the stuff girls get away with would be met with retaliatory violence if carried out by another guy.
We as a society are way too focused on violence against women instead of violence in general. I mean, we even have government-run "domestic violence" ads here in Australia that specifically cover violence against women, and devote their entire runtime to cases of violence carried out by trashy men. Such ads just reinforce gender inequalities.
I'm not saying that the men (or anyone) should be entitled to employ violence. But selective attitudes and mentalities are doing our society no good. A lot of it is perpetrated by feminist groups.
I disagree with feminism as a concept, it's flawed. My mother proved that. Not only is it one-sided, but the means and goals of various feminist groups are too varied and uncoordinated. They have only one unified purpose, to advance the various causes of women. Which is too vague and open to interpretation to be acceptable.
I believe in equalism. Feminism and masculism ideologies are inherently bigoted.
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EDIT: Misinformation and statistics in Australia [http://www.oneinthree.com.au/misinformation/].
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Btw, holy shit:
It got me thinking about the way gender politics affect society's perception of violence, and led me to sites like this one [http://www.oneinthree.com.au/].
Now I've never been married, but my sister could get very violent when we were both teenagers (17-19).
One time for example, she attempted to stab me with a rusty screwdriver after we'd been mouthing off at each other. I grabbed her arm to restrain her, so she bit my wrist as hard as she could (leaving an ugly scar that's still there today).
What could I have done? Without using considerable force or hitting her back I mean (which I didn't, I just stood there like an idiot and let her bite me because I didn't know what to do).
My mum is a die-hard feminist, and used to yell at me as a little kid if I ever touched my sister even a little roughly (as kids do). Although my sister was bigger than me at the time and wasn't afraid to get physical herself, I was always the one blamed and told "never to lay hands on a girl", something I've stuck to throughout my entire life without a second thought. I've never raised a hand to anyone, not counting Krav Maga classes.
I remember sitting next to this massive girl in primary school (biggest kid in the class), and being punched randomly because "I wasn't allowed to hit her back", which she thought was a great laugh. And this creepy fucking girl I sat next to in high school who had a crush on me and used to stab my arm with sharp pencils until I bled, just for shits and giggles.
Can you imagine the uproar if our genders had been reversed? Yet the teachers tolerated it...
Women these days seem all too ready to employ violence against men, maliciously or not. Whether it's just a pinch between friends, a sharp slap after taking offence to something, or kicking a guy hard in the balls (which they often consider funny), a lot of the stuff girls get away with would be met with retaliatory violence if carried out by another guy.
We as a society are way too focused on violence against women instead of violence in general. I mean, we even have government-run "domestic violence" ads here in Australia that specifically cover violence against women, and devote their entire runtime to cases of violence carried out by trashy men. Such ads just reinforce gender inequalities.
I'm not saying that the men (or anyone) should be entitled to employ violence. But selective attitudes and mentalities are doing our society no good. A lot of it is perpetrated by feminist groups.
I disagree with feminism as a concept, it's flawed. My mother proved that. Not only is it one-sided, but the means and goals of various feminist groups are too varied and uncoordinated. They have only one unified purpose, to advance the various causes of women. Which is too vague and open to interpretation to be acceptable.
I believe in equalism. Feminism and masculism ideologies are inherently bigoted.
.
.
EDIT: Misinformation and statistics in Australia [http://www.oneinthree.com.au/misinformation/].
.
.
Btw, holy shit: