Hey all, long-time lurker, first time poster.
JRPGs are really what got me into hardcore gaming, and for the longest time, were the staple of my games library. It started with Final Fantasy VIII (or actually, now that I think about, Pokémon Blue) and from there on, I needed more. I snatched up every new Final Fantasy title I could find and played as much as I could. Every new FF title to me was a new world to explore, new story to experience, and new characters to develop. If it didn't come from Japan, I wasn't interested.
Then I played a few Western RPGs. Morrowind, Oblivion, Knights of the Old Republic, and most recently, Fallout 3. These offered to me a level of immersion no JRPG had ever offered. In these games, I honestly felt more in control of the direction of the game. To paraphrase Yahtzee, JRPGs honestly feel like you're just wheeling characters from one cutscene to another, with some fighting in between.
While I won't say I hate JRPGs, I honestly have come to realize that they can be a tad overrated. I'm certainly going to be more careful with what I buy nowadays, and not just flock to whatever comes out of Japan.