aegix drakan said:
It really depends. Sometimes closed. Sometimes open.
...Also, I haven't had a full-on "face eating" style kiss yet.
As far as how you kiss, same for me, though it's more of the 'occasionally open them for a bit while kissing then shut them again' type of thing others have mentioned.
Some girls look quite good while they're kissing, so taking a peek for a second can be fun, but keeping your eyes open the whole time is pretty creepy by most people's standards. You'll find most peek every once and a while too; every girl I've ever kissed has, though it'll most likely make you both laugh if you peek at the same time, unless you're in the middle of a full-blown, ready-to-*censored*-kiss. (Whoever commented about seeing only the person's ear is needlessly tilting his/her head way too much. Must be doing the face-eating thing
You don't need a 90 degree angle to kiss without bumping noses
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EDIT: haha, just after this post I saw the one above mine saying "Once when I opened my eyes he opened his too. Awkward."
I knew SOMEONE had done it before
However, I think it's more funny than awkward... well, unless they have some crazy, wide-open stare going on.
As far as the face-eating kiss goes... you don't want to. It's... not enjoyable. Kissing is an important part of the relationship for most people. Most couples do it often and if you can't enjoy it... or worse yet, find it BAD, it's not going to work out. Twice in my life I've stopped pursuing or stopped letting her pursue a relationship because they were terrible kissers. It's not mean, if it's going to mess up the relationship down the road why not stop it from happening before its too hard...
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To those posting the "forever alone" or "I've never kissed anyone" crap, I have a question:
...then why are you replying?! You have nothing to contribute (obviously), you're adding nothing but spam and expecting what? Sympathy? If so, do you need some fresh baked cookies to make you feel all warm inside?
Sorry if I'm being a bit harsh but that's like someone posting a question about World of Warcraft and me replying "Dunno, never played it." Waste of my time, the readers time, and the minute amount of space it takes up on the page.
Go work up the nerves to get a kiss if it bothers you enough to bother us with your needless post, it's not hard in the slightest bit.