I remember playing with my buddies in the clan IFR against a clan called CA$H in CoD4 team tactical (on the 360).
Before we started the game we were already talking smack and planning strategies, and it seemed normal. Then, the game ended and they said we sucked and so on. still normal. Then, things got wierd. The other team started keeping between game score of who won and lost each match. That was when things got really fun for me because these guys got less mad and more like "grr, we'll get you next time IFR!!!" by the time we were finished we had played 13 straight games together and the guys became less of random xbox live jerks and more like people we were getting to know.
Final Score: IFR: 9 games CA$H: 4
After those games one of the CA$H guys left, and although I barely knew them and whatever, I didn't want to see them leave because we exchanged states (they were from NY and we are from CA and we each wanted to see each others state some day, small world, I guess) and I learned one guy's name. In the end we all teamed up (the guy who left came back) and played a 6-V-6 game of sabotage against random people and we lost TERRIBLY. It was still fun because I was with friends, and even more so as the night went on. We won, we lost, we came, we saw, we conquered, we WERE conquered. And best of all I made some new friends.
This is the kind of stuff I live for, and Im sad that I dont see it too often anymore. "Friendly" gaming is a dying breed, And by that I don't mean casual gaming, I mean games in which no rockets are whored, no swords are present, martyrdom is unequipped and juggernaut is gathering dust in the corner. Playing games like that or even just a really tense and stealthy match of FFA in CoD4 (you know, where its TOO quiet and no one talks; Where everyone has a silenced gun and there are no p90s or martyrdom people, and even the snipers and airstikes are quiet, so when you die you nearly crap your pants, thats always a fun match because it means that the game lasts longer, kills are more memorable, and believe it or not people actually add me as a friend because of my laid back attitude when I win.
What I really want to know is if ANYONE else play games like I do, if theres a place I can go with servers for gamers like me, or if anyone else out there wont call me racial or religious slurs when I start a friendly chat about my beliefs or hobbies outside of gaming. This whole forum setup seems really friendly and full of people willing to speak logically. I want to hear your thoughts about gaming.