GoaThief said:
PotluckBrigand said:
very few people will consider NOT having a tattoo a deal-breaker, but plenty of people will.
To be blunt, I wouldn't want to enter a relationship with someone idiotic enough to condemn another who is tattooed. I've never met anyone in the real world who has said they would go that far though. Some say they don't like tattoos but never would it get in their way of a relationship - apart from something extreme like racist slogans on a face which is totally understandable.
My first girlfriend was like that haha. In fact, I got my tattoo the week after she dumped me (for unrelated but perfectly justified reasons, I assure you) as a petty "fuck you" to her. I still like it, though.
Personally, I think tattoos on women look totally rad.
I certainly wouldn't say that people who would call ink a deal-breaker are in the majority, but they are out there, and you're probably right. That kind of attitude would likely be indicative of much deeper personal prejudices :X
EDIT: I thought about it some more, and I remember how I felt when I got it. It was very liberating. It was the first time in my adult life I was able to make a decision without really having to consider someone else, because I dated her from High School to a couple years after. I was always respectful and devoted, so when she said she didn't want me to get a tattoo I listened and thought nothing of it, but then when she left (She ended a five-year relationship via a World of Warcraft chat window, shit you not), I was truly on my own for the first time ever, so I went and got a tattoo, and beyond being a good artistic decision, it was an AMAZING experience and it finally made me realize that as an adult, if you want to do something, usually the only thing really holding you back is YOU. It was always something "I wanted to do" until it was something I fucking DID.
I guess what started as petty became a real life-affirming experience.
So no, not only do I not regret my first tattoo, I just got out of another relationship so hell, maybe I'll go get another one this week.