Let me apologize in advance for making one of "those" threads, but I need a little help and I moved this from off topic to advice, sorry.
Hi, I meet a rather pretty girl about a month ago at a high school football game. I talked to her for about 30 minutes. She was friendly at first, but as the conversation went on, she became more closed off. I'm pretty good at reading body language, and she was just not into me, toward the end of the conversation, she was sitting in the corner with her legs crossed, texting and seemingly annoyed, even my wingman noticed. I offered her my jacket because she seemed cold, and she declined. That is fine, plenty of fish in the sea or other cliche. I left her alone and sat with my wingman and watched the game. I pass her in school regularly and for the next week I smiled at her and got a breif smile back, at first it kind of seemed forced. I stopped and focused on other girls for about a month. Now, based on 100% of my experience, on both sides of dating (chasing/being chased), you cannot change a persons opinion if they aren't attracted to you, so this is rare for me to have second thoughts about, but after I stopped paying attention to her, she is starting to act like she is attracted to me. Today, we made eye contact and she quickly looked away and blushed (thought I mentioned that but didn't so *edit*), and I seem to be seeing her more often like she is trying to pass by me, though we haven't talked since the game.
If it is of any importance, we are both fifteen, she is friends with my wingman, and I recently have joined the wrestling team and become slightly more toned, and she has been single for a month now, and at the football game she had recently broke up with her ex. I am not afraid of rejection, I just don't want to bother her if she doesn't like me. Sorry for the slightly long post.
Edit: As long as it's not too much of a problem, I'm gonna make a copy of this thread in advice forum, sorry I didn't know there was one.
Hi, I meet a rather pretty girl about a month ago at a high school football game. I talked to her for about 30 minutes. She was friendly at first, but as the conversation went on, she became more closed off. I'm pretty good at reading body language, and she was just not into me, toward the end of the conversation, she was sitting in the corner with her legs crossed, texting and seemingly annoyed, even my wingman noticed. I offered her my jacket because she seemed cold, and she declined. That is fine, plenty of fish in the sea or other cliche. I left her alone and sat with my wingman and watched the game. I pass her in school regularly and for the next week I smiled at her and got a breif smile back, at first it kind of seemed forced. I stopped and focused on other girls for about a month. Now, based on 100% of my experience, on both sides of dating (chasing/being chased), you cannot change a persons opinion if they aren't attracted to you, so this is rare for me to have second thoughts about, but after I stopped paying attention to her, she is starting to act like she is attracted to me. Today, we made eye contact and she quickly looked away and blushed (thought I mentioned that but didn't so *edit*), and I seem to be seeing her more often like she is trying to pass by me, though we haven't talked since the game.
If it is of any importance, we are both fifteen, she is friends with my wingman, and I recently have joined the wrestling team and become slightly more toned, and she has been single for a month now, and at the football game she had recently broke up with her ex. I am not afraid of rejection, I just don't want to bother her if she doesn't like me. Sorry for the slightly long post.
Edit: As long as it's not too much of a problem, I'm gonna make a copy of this thread in advice forum, sorry I didn't know there was one.
. Well ok your both 15, that means the whole techniques and reactions still are a little bit chaotic, so you cant be sure with the meaning of anything.
