Have Fallen three times so far. First two ended fairly badly for me (mostly due to my own shyness), Third is still going strong.
Poll: Ever been in Love?
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Funny all the misanthropes who go on to state not only haven't they found love, but they doubt it even exists, or if it exists only fools can have it. To answer, yes I am in love. With the same person. Going on five years now. And we're engaged for as soon as we're not too broke for an apartment.
No, 16/17 and still young.
hard to say why not; part of me hates humans, wishes no association to them; part of me says there is someone out there for me.
Yeah, I can safely say my conscience is a bipolar DOUCHE.
hard to say why not; part of me hates humans, wishes no association to them; part of me says there is someone out there for me.
Yeah, I can safely say my conscience is a bipolar DOUCHE.
I'm sorry. I had to post this:
But, no, I've had crushes. No one is attracted to me so...it's weird. All girls Catholic school doesn't help either. :/
But, no, I've had crushes. No one is attracted to me so...it's weird. All girls Catholic school doesn't help either. :/
No. And I don't ever WANT to be, it seems horrible.
If I want to make stupid decisions and blame it on something, I'll just get really fucking drunk.
If I want to make stupid decisions and blame it on something, I'll just get really fucking drunk.
Can I somehow choose the first two options? Because I am desperatley in love with this girl right now but she doesn't share any of those feelings. We're still good friends though.
I'm 18, and I'm sure everyone is going to call me naive, but you know what? You're just jealous cause I'm young and in love.
(cookies for whoever knows that song.)
I'm 18, and I'm sure everyone is going to call me naive, but you know what? You're just jealous cause I'm young and in love.
(cookies for whoever knows that song.)
I think I know that feeling. You don't like people but at the same time you want to belong. No?megaman24681012 said:
I'm in love, with someone I've been best friends with since Kindergarden.
It's funny, once my co-worker asked me what the difference between "Best Friend" and "Boyfriend" was. Was my boyfriend just a best friend that kissed and hugged etc? I had a hard time answering. In a way he was right, but at the same time I felt like that was an oversimplification. Yes my boyfriend IS my best friend, and yes I'm physically intimate with him, but there's a certain something else there that I've NEVER felt for any of the innumerable other good male friends I've had. It's very hard to explain though.
It's funny, once my co-worker asked me what the difference between "Best Friend" and "Boyfriend" was. Was my boyfriend just a best friend that kissed and hugged etc? I had a hard time answering. In a way he was right, but at the same time I felt like that was an oversimplification. Yes my boyfriend IS my best friend, and yes I'm physically intimate with him, but there's a certain something else there that I've NEVER felt for any of the innumerable other good male friends I've had. It's very hard to explain though.
I was once, and it's now a couple of years ago. Needless to say, shit didn't end well. I've had a few attractions to some girls after that, but haven't been able to feel like that again. I would have been able to this year, but the girl didn't want to get in any relationship, so I withheld myself from completely falling for her. A bit of a downer, because I've never had such good chemistry with someone. Hopefully I'll come across someone interesting soon, I tend to lose a bit track of myself without an attraction to anyone.
Yep, been in love, still am, stay a while and listen to my tale, even if some of you have read this.
Known the girl for about five years, but we only started dating about two and a half years later. She lives in Texas, I live in Australia, we've never met in person, but I still love her. We've had ups and downs, she's even gone out with other guys so her Dad doesn't get suspicious and to help compensate for the lack of me being there. Yeah, sounds like a pathetic excuse, but I don't care. She means the world to me, and she's written songs for me, drawn pictures, dedicated writing to me. We can sit together and just talk for hours on end about anything, and then later in the evening she'll lay down on the bed and just watch me as she falls asleep.
We...broke up in March for about 4 months; things were sorta dying down between us and I had been changing personality wise to the point I was constantly worrying about her and had no self esteem. 'Not the person she first fell in love with' in her words. I cut off all contact with her, I deleted everything which reminded me of her, I refused to even utter her name. Even with all that, she was on my mind, especially her smile and her laugh. For the life of me, nothing I did could get her out. I started taking a drink or two everyday because that would scramble my head and mess up the signals, her name would bring up a completely unrelated image. The smallest objects or phrases could bring memories torrenting back in. There was nothing I enjoyed doing anymore, I couldn't stand being at home, always constantly having to leave the house.
The whole time she had been trying to contact me, I was informed of it one time and I ran outside to throw up. She was sorry, so very sorry for breaking up with me, and when I talked to her again, she realised it was a mistake to do that, and she would torture herself by listening to music and doing things that reminded her of me. And, even though I deleted everything, I would subconsciously do those things as well. We've been back together for two weeks, and I haven't felt this alive, this motivated in so long. I think we needed that time apart, because we needed to know if we're in love. I don't care if going back is a mistake...I love her with all my heart. Some might say it's one sided and she's playing me, some might say I'm just obssessed. I don't care; if it works out, I'll be damn happy, if it doesn't I'll go back to how I was before and see how long it takes for me to move on.
There is a point to all this: I believe there is someone for anyone, they might not be in your country, and nothing is ever just sunshine and roses. I know the mistakes I made, and I won't let myself repeat them.
To me, love is very real.
Known the girl for about five years, but we only started dating about two and a half years later. She lives in Texas, I live in Australia, we've never met in person, but I still love her. We've had ups and downs, she's even gone out with other guys so her Dad doesn't get suspicious and to help compensate for the lack of me being there. Yeah, sounds like a pathetic excuse, but I don't care. She means the world to me, and she's written songs for me, drawn pictures, dedicated writing to me. We can sit together and just talk for hours on end about anything, and then later in the evening she'll lay down on the bed and just watch me as she falls asleep.
We...broke up in March for about 4 months; things were sorta dying down between us and I had been changing personality wise to the point I was constantly worrying about her and had no self esteem. 'Not the person she first fell in love with' in her words. I cut off all contact with her, I deleted everything which reminded me of her, I refused to even utter her name. Even with all that, she was on my mind, especially her smile and her laugh. For the life of me, nothing I did could get her out. I started taking a drink or two everyday because that would scramble my head and mess up the signals, her name would bring up a completely unrelated image. The smallest objects or phrases could bring memories torrenting back in. There was nothing I enjoyed doing anymore, I couldn't stand being at home, always constantly having to leave the house.
The whole time she had been trying to contact me, I was informed of it one time and I ran outside to throw up. She was sorry, so very sorry for breaking up with me, and when I talked to her again, she realised it was a mistake to do that, and she would torture herself by listening to music and doing things that reminded her of me. And, even though I deleted everything, I would subconsciously do those things as well. We've been back together for two weeks, and I haven't felt this alive, this motivated in so long. I think we needed that time apart, because we needed to know if we're in love. I don't care if going back is a mistake...I love her with all my heart. Some might say it's one sided and she's playing me, some might say I'm just obssessed. I don't care; if it works out, I'll be damn happy, if it doesn't I'll go back to how I was before and see how long it takes for me to move on.
There is a point to all this: I believe there is someone for anyone, they might not be in your country, and nothing is ever just sunshine and roses. I know the mistakes I made, and I won't let myself repeat them.
To me, love is very real.
Wow. Wish I could have that kind of feeling. Well no reason to be sour about it soJemothSkarii said:
1: I wish you the best of luck in your future.
2: I hate you for not being as sad as me.
Best of luck finding out which one's sarcasm. Spoiler alert its the second one.
OT I think I was in 10th grade to someone who was in group therapy with me but 2 years later after 5 attempted failures at getting a girlfriend and 2 that never got to an attempt I'm kinda numbed to all good emotions. So if I was or not I don't know now and I don't think I ever will know.
Yes. Im in love with my current girlfriend even if she isnt in love me with. Oh yes she loves me, but she is not "in love" with me. I just feel that she is the most perfect being on the planet and we have only been dating for 5 months. I also adore her family but feel they secretly hate me.
