Toriver said:
You see, therein lies the problem.
I'm a nice guy, I go out of my way to be polite and not get in people's way, to do the right thing even though its an inconvenience to me, whatever. I do my best to, as the base commander says, "be a good ambassador to the US!".
But I'm met with the distain of my ancestors, people who have long since left the island, or the recent jackasses who have since been removed from the country and the military. Its not my fault people have waged war against them, wasn't my choice to be sent there, and there was nothing I could do to prevent the marines causing problems in Okinawa, people driving drunk here in Misawa getting into wrecks, I couldn't have stopped any of that if I wanted. But here I am, branded the same as those people. Which is fine, whatever, I understand the reasons behind it (even though we did send loads of relief after the earthquake, I myself personally volunteered over 50 hours of my time doing hard labor cleaning up nearby towns). What I really don't like about them is they are one of the few first world countries that don't have laws against discrimination. they are perfectly legal in putting up signs that say that gaijin aren't welcome. If I'm sitting in my car, keys out of the ignition and a Japanese National hits me with their car, it's my fault and my insurance will reflect that ("if I hadn't been there, it wouldn't have happened.").
Frankly, I'm kinda tired of it to be honest. Their culture seems nice, and for the most part it is. Nobody will be openly hostile towards you in public, and they won't tell you off in public either (at least not in a language you will understand). But underneath it all is the racism, the hostility, and in some cases, the anger. So, defend it, condemn it, it doesn't matter to me. I've witnessed genuinely innocent people being goaded into fighting JN's so they would get arrested, I've seen the bills and the court settlements of people who didn't even have the car started get blamed for car crashes. It's not fair, but the Japanese government doesn't give a shit, your American, all they want is your money, everything else about you can go.
jadias said:
You realise there's a lot more to it than Tokyo, right? Try the Japan Alps if you want to get away from it all. Heck, go to Hokkaido! There is some AMAZING countryside in Japan, if you care to look for it (and I don't mean climbing Fuji in tourist season).
Have a look here - this is what I'll be doing this winter and this is in Japan!
http://i-cjw.com/
No flashing neon signs, no crowded subway trains, no Pocky. Just beautiful wilderness (and awesome climbing!).
I'm planning a winter ascent of Fuji, too - quite different from sticking to the tourist path in the summer!
Your right, and wrong. The usual tourist traps (Tokyo, Shibuya, Sendai(before the quake), Sapporo, etc.) sure. But due to the military bases, there pretty much isn't a place that doesn't have some well beaten path. Mt. Fuji for example has loads of people, pretty much everyone I know here has climbed it (military guided tour services, gotta love em)