I have male characters, but I will not hesitate to let those who are curious know I am female in real life if the ask.
I know right? I was browsing the Escapist like I do every so often, and I find this thread. And man, I didn't realize this alienation of girls on anonymous media was so bad. I mean, I knew it was obviously bad but damn... I couldn't finish the video posted earlier.Khuzaki said:I'm a guy, who has a few female friends online, and I don't think they've ever had incidents but I myself have been harassed on female characters with male names even >_>
I reading through this thread makes me feel almost ashamed to be male
you should get a voice synthesizing headset. I use them because it's hilarious but due to you being a girl there are practical uses for them.Elysis said:I have no words.Mariena said:It can get this [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zRkao-gyZC0] bad.
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Except complete and utter rage actually. Yeah, rage sounds about right.
I kind of stopped playing online because of that - Not only did I ALWAYS end up having to play with sexist douchebags, but they were also most of the time racist.
This is depressing.Mariena said:Unfortunately, that's yet another disaster waiting to happen -_-'
I like guys. As long as they treat me equal, and they're funny and witty. Those guys are fun to play with. That usually includes goons (people from Something Awful). Those are mature, and waaay past the stage to hit on girls online, if they ever had that urge in their life.
A girl only group is just so.. boring. And still I find a lot of girls to be "oh, tee-hee ^_^ how do I play this again? Boy I'm bad at this! LOL!". That's fine, and you're still a really great girl and nice person! I just get a little bit ticked off if my team is performing really bad. That's my problem, and I guess I'm sometimes more of a lone wolf than a team player. But still.
It also attracts those smug "feminist" types that like to berate the men for being men.
Just my experience, no real facts.
These are my experiences, that's all I'm saying. And my experience tells me that the average male gamer seems to be more savvy when it comes to games. Perhaps I experience it that way, because there are more male gamers in FPS and other action oriented games. Yet a lot of the female gamers I've played with just didn't seem to know what they're doing. Granted, I have seen a number of girls that play well. Perhaps the men are generally just more interested and dedicated. Or pick the game up quicker. Or just have more experience in general.Colour-Scientist said:This is depressing.Mariena said:Unfortunately, that's yet another disaster waiting to happen -_-'
I like guys. As long as they treat me equal, and they're funny and witty. Those guys are fun to play with. That usually includes goons (people from Something Awful). Those are mature, and waaay past the stage to hit on girls online, if they ever had that urge in their life.
A girl only group is just so.. boring. And still I find a lot of girls to be "oh, tee-hee ^_^ how do I play this again? Boy I'm bad at this! LOL!". That's fine, and you're still a really great girl and nice person! I just get a little bit ticked off if my team is performing really bad. That's my problem, and I guess I'm sometimes more of a lone wolf than a team player. But still.
It also attracts those smug "feminist" types that like to berate the men for being men.
Just my experience, no real facts.
Can I ask you, and this is an honest question I'm not trying to be an ass, do you really believe that or is it a "show of to the guy gamers" spiel?
It just bothers me when I see girls, particularly on this site, just reinforce stereotypes of girls who play games and merely state that they are the exception and "one of the guys".
A voice synthesizing headset? Not that I'd buy one, but I'd like to see an example of that.Epicspoon said:you should get a voice synthesizing headset. I use them because it's hilarious but due to you being a girl there are practical uses for them.Elysis said:I have no words.Mariena said:It can get this [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zRkao-gyZC0] bad.
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Except complete and utter rage actually. Yeah, rage sounds about right.
I kind of stopped playing online because of that - Not only did I ALWAYS end up having to play with sexist douchebags, but they were also most of the time racist.
though I really do wish girls played on x-box live(with headsets that is) it's nice to be able to chat with a girl without having to worry about them assuming I'm trying to get in their pants.
This is basically what I do, too. Unless I thought it was the only way to get someone to stop harassing me I wouldn't directly lie -- though I've occasionally lied by omission, or at least heavily implied I'm male/left it very ambiguous.Chemical Alia said:I don't usually correct people when they assume I'm a guy unless it's really relevant somehow, and I don't bring up my gender unless it's related to the topic. I've never said I was male, though.
I think it's kinda sad that you can't really go about and tell the public your gender without being "punished". Like it's some sort of crime.Evidencebased said:This is basically what I do, too. Unless I thought it was the only way to get someone to stop harassing me I wouldn't directly lie -- though I've occasionally lied by omission, or at least heavily implied I'm male/left it very ambiguous.Chemical Alia said:I don't usually correct people when they assume I'm a guy unless it's really relevant somehow, and I don't bring up my gender unless it's related to the topic. I've never said I was male, though.
It does happen quite a lot. If you think thats bad you should check out: http://fatuglyorslutty.com/ for some more examples.TheGoldenMan said:This never happen to my sister, women online I am acquainted with, or any girl gamer I know. Is it really that big of a problem(as in does it happen alot)?Mariena said:Precisely why I stopped the whole "ventrilo/voice required" thing. Dumped my microphome/headset and got a good pair of headphones. My days of raiding in WoW and such are over anyway, but still. I want to play Firefall, yet not be bothered by these juveniles. Hoping I can find the right group to play with.ravensheart18 said:OMG, that's unbelievable.Mariena said:It can get this [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zRkao-gyZC0] bad.
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My wife only plays female avatars, but she doesn't use voice so most ppl assume she is a guy and she doesn't correct them.
My last gf stopped using voice and switched to male avatars after getting repeatedly harrassed.
BTW, I think that guy was a little special, so he couldn't know about rejections.
(i still lol'ed)
OT:As a man, I cannot say, good sir.
From this thread and other places, it's apparent this is quite common practice.Chemical Alia said:I don't usually correct people when they assume I'm a guy unless it's really relevant somehow, and I don't bring up my gender unless it's related to the topic. I've never said I was male, though.
I laughed. I just laughed. The pushy thing must've been really annoying and all, but I couldn't help myself. I'm probably the only person on earth thinking this, seeing all the responses in this topic and the vocal response of those guys.Mariena said:It can get this [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zRkao-gyZC0] bad.
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