Sef Salem said:Okay, I've managed to bite my tongue thus far into this thread, but CHRIST this needs to stop people.
I am a successful man, my wife is a successful woman. I am self-employed and work as a rep and give talks, amongst other things, my wife is a [6th Form science] teacher currently taking a career break to look after our five-month-old son and possibly retraining to become a Doula. We own a house each, a motorbike each, and a car with way too many baby accoutrements in.
Sounds like we have decent career prospects, right? That we're doing okay, that I found a quality person to have my kids with?
Well I have seven tattoos, including on my wrists at the pulse points, and my wife has the same. One of each of ours are visible, which is a rosebud tattooed on our left ring-finger, which we had done together to mark our handfasting (religious wedding) and is not covered completely by our wedding rings.
I had tattoos when I met her; she had tattoos when she met me. When I was 18 I was working as a chemical engineer; at that age she was a model. People change. People get tattoos. We all make choices we have to live with. No, the tattoo on her lower abdomen doesn't look great after pregnancy, but we can deal with that because we are mature people who made a choice and understood what that entailed.
loves2spooge said:If you get a tattoo on your neck or anywhere visible all the time, you'll ruin your prospects for a decent job for the rest of your life, and I'd say that's a damn sight more important than getting something that looks cool. Plus, neck tattoos are for drug dealers and date rapists (no offense to those who do have a neck tattoo).
I'm going to agree with Sef Salem here, this whole 'if you get a neck tattoo you will turn in to a date rapist' is way over the top and, i have to say, incredibly short sighted.
Yes, getting certain tattoos will limit you from being employed by certain employers. But they're not the end of the world!
That being said, they're going to hurt like all hell so maybe think about getting your first tattoo somewhere like your arm where it's not going to be as bad, nothing looks worse than a 2/3rds finished tattoo because you couldn't handle the pain any longer.
OT: Fox hound, easily, though I really like the more badge like design posted on page #1 of the fox with the blade in its mouth.