Poll: Hats : Wearing Indoors. Rude?

Defective_Detective

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As a part of my personal fashion, I enjoy wearing hats. I think they can lend an old-fashioned charm and/or a certain dapperness to an outfit. I enjoy perusing and wearing a variety of hats, from vintage trilbys, fedoras and derbys to the more modern military-style baseball caps, and others.

I like the fact that hats are making a come back in the modern fashion arena, in particular the modernized versions of classic vintage hats like the trilby and fedora. I'm sure there are others on this forum who would agree it's a promising and welcome trend. These hats have seen a particular rise in popularity thanks to their adoption by certain internet and RL celebrities. Prime internet examples would be the trilby-wearing Yahtzee of Zero Punctuation fame, and the fedora-inclined Linkara from Atop the Fourth Wall.

However, even as these classic-era hats have regained popularity, the social rules of hats have fallen by the wayside, it seems.

Typically in the old days, the social convention (at least for men) was that hats were to be worn outside, and inside if it were a open area (such as a train station, hotel lobby or post office) but not inside closed areas (such as a house, in a church, or restaurant). You tipped your hat by slightly lifting it, or touching your fingers to the brim as a sign of respect to passing ladies and other strangers, and took it off when amongst friends, for a funeral procession or when the national anthem plays. For ladies, it was acceptable to keep your hat on except in your own home, for the most part.

Nowadays when I see young men wearing hats, especially classics, these rules have been forgotten, and aren't exactly followed consistently. Whilst some do enjoy the "cool" gesture of tipping hats in polite gestures, they flout the need to take off the hat indoors. Personally, I think it looks quite pretentious, even before considering how rude it is. It makes someone look aloof and above all the uncovered heads. One first-year university student I met refused to take his trilby off when sitting down at a table in a bar to eat. That really irked me.

What does everyone else think? Do you wear a hat as part of your look? If so, what does it look like, and how do you wear it? Should we return to old etiquette?

EDIT: If you wear one, what kind of hat do you wear/like the most?
 

Jamboxdotcom

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depends on the hat, the building, and the company you're keeping. which is pretty much what you already pointed out.

not a hat wearer myself, but i'm a fan of a good hat.
 

EightGaugeHippo

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Yes, I dont wear hats, male.

The one exeption to this is when its cold in the winter and your heatings broken....
"BUUURRRHHH!"
 

Infinatex

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Hat always. Inside or outside. Oh and I only wear New Era Flatbrims. Times are changing!
 

tharglet

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Depends on the hat type and the situation.
(Edit: though in most situations I wouldn't consider it rude)
 

Bobic

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But hat stands are not common in this day and age. If you take it off when you go indoors where will you put it? Will you be forced to hold it, awkwardly.
 

Dango

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Depends on the hat really. You can't really call wearing a trilby rude, but I guess you could with a normal baseball cap.
 

fullbleed

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I don't care if you wear a hat indoors, and if someone tries to tell me to take it off inside I'll deffinately be ready to fight for it. I mean it's not the fucking 1930s, who cares. We don't doff our caps at people, there's no need, you'd look like a beurk. Men don't have to wear suits everywhere either, we don't live in as much of a class society. It seems like useless nostalgia at times.

"Bah! I remember-"
"What? What do you remember?! Fucking slavery that's what"
 

Defective_Detective

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Bobic said:
But hat stands are not common in this day and age. If you take it off when you go indoors where will you put it? Will you be forced to hold it, awkwardly.
Set it down on a table or hang it from a coat rack. Simple.
 

Sightless Wisdom

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I think if someone wants to wear a hat they should be able to do it wherever they please. There's no reason to hold on to meaningless old customs, the only reason it was/is disrespectful to wear a hat indoors is because society said it was so. If we say it's fine, then there is no longer a problem.
 

JRCB

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You're not supposed to wear a hat inside, ever. If at a friend's house, then it's probably okay, but it is polite to remove your headwear before going indoors.
 

zama174

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Eh being one of those kids of today who apparently has "no respect." I fail to see why its such a big deal. I personally love Fedoras and Cowboy hats, and when I want to wear one I don't want to have to keep taking it off just to hold it funny.. In this day and age you hardly find a Hatstand, much less would you want to put your hat there in fear of someone stealing it.. This isn't the 30s, we are far less classy and far less respectful. IF you put something down, its bout to be stolen.. :/
 

Bullfrog1983

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I don't think it is rude to wear a hat indoors, but if the host thinks it is rude then you should obviously take it off.
 

thenumberthirteen

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I think you should remove a hat indoors. Particularly in someone's house, or a formal place such as a workplace or restaurant. Hats should also be removed in the presence of the dead as a sign of respect.
 

Zechnophobe

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How... could wearing a hat be rude? What exactly about that action is rude, in any context?

Assuming of course the hat isn't embroidered with the words "Fuck you" or something of course.
 

Brightzide

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I love wearing hats! I have a pretty huge collection ( 59 to be exact ) of hats that have lived through the ages. I have named each of them and have them all deposited forever in my memory bank. My current Fave though is an Adidas Ushanka that set me back £25, Its good choice for the weather, I look okay in it and its uber comfy, and if it just so happens to be chilly indoors...YES! I will wear a hat, stop telling me its rude grown-ups! :)