Poll: Have you lost your virginity? If so, when and with who?

[probunk]

Nope. Dating a great girl, and we'll probably lose it together. Probably fairly soon. I'm 17, she's 18.

 

[GodofDisaster]

Just turned 19 and I'm still a virgin, although my emotions on the subject tend to vary I can go from not given a dam about my virginity to getting really anxious about it the. I guess despite the fact that I it doesn't bother me that much, I'm just curious.

 

[pulse2]

15, was okay I guess, despite the fact I had to pretend I was experienced because I kind of told a little fib to get with a girl I liked.

It worked and at the time I was chuffed, but in hindsight, I realise how amateur I was as well as irresponsible :/

Would I do it again? Nah, I'd probably have waited a lil longer.

 

[Mr. Google]

15. and last october. Some people might say its not a big deal and it doesnt change you but honestly it is. If you lose it with a person you love and care for then its a strengthening of that bond and if it with some random slut then...you just feel dumb. It was my girlfriend who im still with after now 7ish months. It really changed me a lot though. As a person it made me more confident in who i was and less insecure about a lot of things that i now see as dumb IE will i be bad, is my dick small, will i feel awkward. Things i found out according to my GF 1. Im sure as hell not bad 2. dick size doesnt matter 3. yes you will feel awkward but after a bit it feels so...natural and just right

 

[TheColdHeart]

I was 17 and so was she. We'd had an argument before too so it was a bit awkward and tense. She also kinda just lay there like a corpse which was a bit off-putting. And as we'd had the arguement and I was feeling a bit off, I also vividly remember the moment it went in I thought "Well I'm never getting that back ever again"...ain't love grand.

 

[Mr. Google]

15 with my first true girlfriend. It was the first time for both of us and it was a pretty awesome experience, especially at the end when she accused me of having done it before. I miss her, beyond the sex she was also a really fun girl and had a great personality. We actually lasted a year and 3 months to the exact day that we broke up.

Wow...this is pretty much my situation only me and her are...more or less still going out (its a complicated thing) After i was done she was like...wait are you sure this is your first time? im like uhm...yeah? pretty damn sure i wouldnt have forgotten about that. and shes like...woah! how are you that much better than my ex on your first try than he ever was? and from there i just got better.

 

[shadyh8er]

I'm a 19 yr old freshman in college, a virgin, and frustrated as hell.

It seems strange to me now that I was, much like you, really hoping to lose it. Like, I thought things would be different afterwards. But they weren't. You'll find that it's just one more activity that people can participate in, granted, it's an activity a lot of people put a lot of effort towards participating in, but it's not the earth shaking thing many virgins seem to think it is.

Ok! All better now!

 

[loc978]

I was 17, I think she was 21 or 22. She was a stripper, off work and partying at my apartment. We were both completely plastered and neither of us were very clean at the time. All in all not a good experience, especially when I was hung over driving her and her boyfriend home...

 

[Mr. Google]

Define virginity.

Then I'll get back to you.

if your straight then penis into vagina. if youre gay your first time having a sexual experience going beyond oral sex. if youre a lesbian then your first...oral experience i guess? Lesbians really hard to define

 

[jowo96]

I have better things to do... like commenting on forums

 

[Dango]

Nope, I'm 15 and I don't have any desire to.

 

[ajemas]

No, and I don't particularly want to. I don't see the point in going through intense social pressure, awkward conversations, and interpersonal drama just to empty out my seminal vesicles. I also have no desire to be in a relationship, so it doesn't make any sense for me to do it. I'm perfectly content remaining a virgin, and I think that it will stay that way for the foreseeable future.

 

[Leftnt Sharpe]

Yes, 16, with a lady friend of mine. Never made love to a woman though.............Christ thats some serious humanities student shit right there. Now I feel really old and sage.

 

[Vault Citizen]

When I was 15 with a girl I met on the internet.

 

[Requx]

17 still haven't. I always imagined that my first time I'd be beating my favourite videogame. Anyways this may take a while.

 

[jaketheripper]

"Virginity is not a virtue, it is merely a lack of oppurtunity."

So, Escapist, have you lost your virginity? It´s okay, you don´t have to tell, you can vote anonymously in the poll if you´d like!

Me? Well, since i´m thirteen, no. But, to no ones suprise, i want to.

How about you?

13, gf, 15 now

 

[awmperry]

Well, I'm married and my wife's pregnant. And yes, it's mine. That said, I'm approaching 28 and didn't start until almost two years ago - I was never in any hurry.

So all those worrying and panicking - nah. It'll (probably) happen sooner or later.

 

[Sion_Barzahd]

Yeah i was 15, just. It was actually really nice, but me and the girl i was dating were really close.

My advice is don't hook up with the first girl willing, wait until it's right. losing your V might not be the biggest thing in life, but it is one of the things you always remember.

 

[DesiPrinceX09]

Almost 19 and still a virgin, and perfectly fine with it. I've even considered just getting a vasectomy and do life long celibacy, that's how much I don't care. I either want to lose it with a girl I love (and marry) or not at all.