Poll: Help with a girl.

[vento 231]

Hi, so today I asked out a girl and got an odd answer. I asked her and she said, "ask me later please, I'm not feeling good." Ok if I were brad pitt she would have dropped everything and said yes. I'm debating on whether I should bother to ask her again, or just move on.
Some extra info:
sophmores in high school
She has not been at school the last few days before I asked her (Sick?)
She seemed frustrated (with me?)
I don't talk to her almost ever, but I do know her twin rather well.

 

[bloodymassacre]

Hi, so today I asked out a girl and got an odd answer. I asked her and she said, "ask me later please, I'm not feeling good." Ok if I were brad pitt she would have dropped everything and said yes. I'm debating on whether I should bother to ask her again, or just move on.
Some extra info:
sophmores in high school
She has not been at school the last few days before I asked her (Sick?)
She seemed frustrated (with me?)
I don't talk to her almost ever, but I do know her twin rather well.

Well first, She seemed frustrated and missed a few days at school, this could mean one of a few things, one there could have been some family issues at home that she doesnt want to share.

And dont just jump to conclusions to "IF i were" that doesnt get you anywhere, if i were you i would ask her when she was feeling better, go hang out with her, get to know here better, if she likes you she might start to open up and you may be able to help and give advice and get closer in the process.

Hope this helps

 

[WingedIncubus]

Just drop it for a few days. She's feeling sick and she is not in the mood for that. People who are sick are often impatient and irritable.

The "Ask me later" means just that, ask her later when she feels better. She knows you were asking her out, and she didn't close the door. She is just not into it right now.

You get it wrong. If you were Brad Pitt, there's no way she'd want to go out with you feeling sick and on her worst, she'd want to be to her best with you. If you had a stomach flu and the babe of your dream came to you, would you go out with her all vomiting around and feeling like shit?

Don't fret it, take it easy, and go for her when she feels better. That said, don't wait on her and stop looking around for other girls. You're still available, so go chasin'.

 

[LetalisK]

Move on. That's my advice. Find someone else and have fun. Do not wait around for her.

 

[vento 231]

Move on. That's my advice. Find someone else and have fun. Do not wait around for her.

I like you, you remind me of courage wolf.

 

[LetalisK]

Move on. That's my advice. Find someone else and have fun. Do not wait around for her.

I like you, you remind me of courage wolf.

That's because I AM courage wolf. Seriously though, I suppose I could explain. Chances are she does not want to go out with you. Waiting for her is not going to change this. If she does actually want to go out with you, waiting around can only hurt you by making you look needy. Move on. If she really wants to go out with you, she will make it apparent to you in some manner when she is ready.

Move on. Get nookie.

 

[vento 231]

Move on. That's my advice. Find someone else and have fun. Do not wait around for her.

I like you, you remind me of courage wolf.

That's because I AM courage wolf. Seriously though, I suppose I could explain. Chances are she does not want to go out with you. Waiting for her is not going to change this. If she does actually want to go out with you, waiting around can only hurt you by making you look needy. Move on. If she really wants to go out with you, she will make it apparent to you in some manner when she is ready.

Move on. Get nookie.

Thank you, but I have decided to ask again on tuesday, but by no means stop chasing. If I don't get a straight answer then fuck it.

 

[LetalisK]

You are a more patient man than I.

 

[vento 231]

You are a more patient man than I.

I have talked to mutual friends, and from what I hear she's going through a lot so I'm gonna let it slide.