Poll: How do you see people that sleep around? (Updated)

[Bara_no_Hime]

So, it is likely that many here that sleep around and many that don't. The question isn't whether or not you have a lot of sex with different people but rather how do you view someone who does? The type of person isn't in question because they are how you would image someone that have sex with lots of people to be, whatever that might be. This thread is not meant to bash on those people but is analyze people's perspectives on sex.

How do I see them? As more potential sex partners! Yay!

Seriously, one of my friends recently introduced me to this beautiful woman who rapidly became part of our circle of friends, and I was told on the side that she's kind of a slut - I was thrilled, because hopefully that means that my spouse and I will be able to get into her pants. ^^

 

[Karlosdj86]

if you could..... you would

 

[Malrock]

It's not a negative thing in my opinion. So long as the person isn't already in a relationship and no one is being deceived, I belive it is fine! They have just embraced a good sex life. When all parties involved know where they stand, I don't see it as immoral either. Stigmas attached sexual activity outside a relationship are old fashioned imo. Just be safe and be honest.

 

[D Moness]

You know, I am getting pretty pissed off with people disagreeing with a thread and starting a polar opposite thread, if you want to voice an opinion contrary to that thread or feel it was a stupid thread say so in the thread. This is just wanting to whine without subjecting yourself to the possibility of getting shot down.

I already posted my opinion in that topic as well(i can link it if you want too).
My problem with the topic is not so much the subject. Like i care who a virgin is and who sleeps around(their lives etc).

What i do take offence to was the slightly screwed poll(same as what i did but i get called out for it much more). Also slightly offence is the reaction of a lot of people that think people that are a virgin is pathetic(what i also said in my post) but since 1 post i a 11 pages topic (with a post ever 2 minutes or so) this is my way of pointing towards the absurd thinking of people.

Yes it is a bad form of parody but it got people's attention more then my post in the original topic. Sure not the best way but a way.

 

[aba1]

has nothing to do with me why should I judge

 

[Drago-Morph]

What Palademon said. Why are all the options negative? Biased poll is biased.

They're just people that have learned to embrace sexuality and pleasure without being embarassed by it.

Agreed. The poll is biased. Personally, people who have lots of sex should be commended for breaking norms and help furthering societal evolution to embrace the most basic element of our very biological existence and get rid of the hypocrisy that plagues our culture in that we condemn sexuality while basing everything we do around it.

Y'know, unless they're those spray-on tan douches, Jeresy Shore-style. Then I want to punch them in the face.

 

[SilentCom]

So, it is likely that many here that sleep around and many that don't. The question isn't whether or not you have a lot of sex with different people but rather how do you view someone who does? The type of person isn't in question because they are how you would image someone that have sex with lots of people to be, whatever that might be. This thread is not meant to bash on those people but is analyze people's perspectives on sex.

To make this a little easier, I've included a poll that doesn't make real sense with the answers but for the sake of trying to be funny i added it.

I see what you did there.

Their choice is their own but if it's someone I am interested in, I might feel a little dissuaded from forming a relationship with them. The reason being is that if they're going around sleeping with a bunch of people, it is likely they may cheat on or leave me. If they're a friend or acquaintence I don't think I'd care.

 

[Nimcha]

Lucky bastards.

This! I think I should've done a lot more sleeping around in my teenage years.

 

[Legion IV]

They do what they want and i wont call them out on it but i dont see them well neither will i try to be friends with them.

Do as you wish but dont expect me to like it, i just hope they make it clear somehow, helps me decide who to avoid.

 

[6unn3r]

It's just sex....so what?

 

[trooper6]

I don't care what people do in their private life as long as they do what they do safely, consensually, and with integrity.

That is all.

 

[PettingZOOPONY]

Sex is fun go have lots of it in a safe responsible manner with anyone that will let you.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

It's not my thing, but I'm not really against it.

I don't do it mainly because A) I have a gf, and B) I'm not the kind of guy that can do one night stands. I've had plenty of opportunities before I met my gf, but it just never felt right. I don't think I could sleep with anyone that I don't really have feelings for.

 

[The Lunatic]

Depends really.

If all they do is want sex with people, then, well, they really annoy me, I tend to prefer people who have more of a personality than "Let's fuck!".

If they're still a functional human being who doesn't make it their hourly goal, then I see no reason it'd get in the way.

 

[archvile93]

I'm fine with it as long as they're honest about it to their partners as well as themselves.

 

[floobie]

They're sluts. Whether you interpret that as a negative thing is up to you. They can do what they want.

 

[The Unworthy Gentleman]

I see them as normal people because I'm not a judgemental prick who writes someone off for doing something they like with who they want. In short: I don't give a shit.

 

[ComicsAreWeird]

The poll is biased, so i wont vote. Nothing wrong with sleping around in my opinion.

 

[game-lover]

So it's not just me who noticed all the negative options...

Well, I don't think of it as my business too much. I don't understand it. In fact, it confuses me that people can even do it in the first place. There are replies here with members saying "it's just sex and it's fun" and they seem to understand the concept. I don't and I'm just sitting here scratching my head wondering just... How?!

But... ultimately I don't care. Just don't like... overly mention it in front of me or I will bombard you with all kinds of questions.

The ones who sleep around while in monogamous--non open relationships are the people that I do consider sluts however. And I have no problems letting it be known. I have such disgust for them and all that jazz.

 

[Jatyu]

You guys do realise this thread is a parody of this one http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/18.276268-Poll-How-do-you-see-virgins right?

It's a copy with edited words. It's poll options mimic the ones found in the other thread.

The op even points this out in his post.

To make this a little easier, I've included a poll that doesn't make real sense with the answers but for the sake of trying to be funny i added it.

I'm not the only one who gets this... right?

Please... I'm not crazy... right?