Eisenfaust said:
I ask them "but why bother?" and they just repeat themselves... its an illogical arguement... the hell is the point?!
The thing is, you repeat yourself as well.
Maybe the problem is that our definitions of meaning are just too different.
I don't believe life is meaningless just because there's no afterlife.
Why do you need an evaluator and a reward for your life to matter?
"The point" is whatever you make of it.
To me, the point is to (however cheesy that sounds) help other people, someday have kids and raise them to be good people and die happy.
But everybody has a different definition of what makes
their life matter.
Maybe, to you, it's to live a good life and get into heaven?
Maybe to another person, it's to acquire a lot of wealth?
And some other people might not ever find their true meaning.
There is no "ultimate goal" in life as there is no "objective meaning" in it, either.
That does
not, however, diminish the value of your life, since there are plenty of subjective meanings to choose from, based on what you think (depending on your upbringing, education, morals, beliefs) is important in this life.