Poll: I have a question for the ladies

[The Legendary Phoenix]

Ok, here's my question

What do women search for in men?
Looks, Brains, Money, Power?
I'd like to know, and think it would be an interesting topic.
I'd also like to here what guys think they could be doing to seem appealing to women.

*To Escapist mods and such* If this thread is inappropriate by all means toss it out.

 

[bodyklok]

Not a lady but I can answer this question. A big penis.

(Shhhs this is a joke, don't tell anyone!)

 

[insectoid]

It's different for every woman.

 

[The Legendary Phoenix]

It's different for every woman.

Well I wouldn't mind hearing from a variety of them

 

[kelnadine]

Personality, confidence (without arrogance, arrogance is a huge turn-off), smart without being annoyingly so...and attractive. That doesn't necessarily mean very good looking, just that he's attractive to me. That's what I look for.

 

[Blow_Pop]

Ok, here's my question

What do women search for in men?
Looks, Brains, Money, Power?
I'd like to know, and think it would be an interesting topic.
I'd also like to here what guys think they could be doing to seem appealing to women.

*To Escapist mods and such* If this thread is inappropriate by all means toss it out.

I go for brains and personality. If you don't have those, you don't have anything.....i don't care how cute you may be. Most of my exs are what are considered ugly by the general population...meh

the big one:
GOOD HYGIENE

Not a lady but I can answere thsi question. A big penis.

haha sometimes that helps but you gotta have the brains and the personality and the hygiene.

 

[captainwillies]

i real big douche. thats what women want....what disagree? i was at pub and two of these drugged up looking biker type guys started arguing with each other real loudly and real scary. then their girlfriends come and try to break them up. you know what one of them does? he spits in her face! you know what she does to retaliate? SHE STARTS KISSING HIM OPEN MOUTH STYLE!

my only response to this was "and i don't have a girlfriend?"

 

[bodyklok]

Not a lady but I can answere thsi question. A big penis.

haha sometimes that helps but you gotta have the brains and the personality and the hygiene.

It was a JOKE damn it!

 

[Blow_Pop]

Not a lady but I can answere thsi question. A big penis.

haha sometimes that helps but you gotta have the brains and the personality and the hygiene.

It was a JOKE damn it!

I know, but I had to go with it. Its in my nature. Sarcasm is just harder to show over the net

 

[Matronadena]

I look for the same in both men and women.

personality
hygiene
intelligence ( and that goes beyond being erudite... but nothing is a bigger turn off than a know it all smart ass)


I also add stamina, if you can't keep up don't bother " that is not limited to sex, it's sparring, and keeping up with the paces that's just life in general

There are a few more that I think hold that number one place...looks, while not always important are up on the list as it denotes health, and genetic streangths...

 

[bodyklok]

Not a lady but I can answere thsi question. A big penis.

haha sometimes that helps but you gotta have the brains and the personality and the hygiene.

It was a JOKE damn it!

I know, but I had to go with it. Its in my nature. Sarcasm is just harder to show over the net

Fair enough, I was right though wasn't I?

 

[Blow_Pop]

Not a lady but I can answere thsi question. A big penis.

haha sometimes that helps but you gotta have the brains and the personality and the hygiene.

It was a JOKE damn it!

I know, but I had to go with it. Its in my nature. Sarcasm is just harder to show over the net

Fair enough, I was right though wasn't I?

In seriousness, I know girls who just go for size and the guys attached to it are complete idiots. Makes me sad. I get the best of both worlds, a complete gamer/nerd who treats me like the world revolves around me who is cute, and increasingly intelligent and talks nerdy to me all the time *swoon* with size...haha.....But really its the him talking nerdy to me that got me when I met him.

 

[irrelevantnugget]

Following evolutionary psychology, a woman wants a person who will has good genes. She unconsciously relies on visual cues in a male, to find her partner. The most important cues are: signs of health, beauty (e.g. symmetry) and strength (dates back from when we were nomads, good hunters could supply their offspring with food; this often has to be proven by experience, which is why women often are interested in men older than them).

 

[Blow_Pop]

Following evolutionary psychology, a woman wants a person who will has good genes. She unconsciously relies on visual cues in a male, to find her partner. The most important cues are: signs of health, beauty (e.g. symmetry) and strength (dates back from when we were nomads, good hunters could supply their offspring with food; this often has to be proven by experience, which is why women often are interested in men older than them).

and men with muscles.

 

[Delicious]

Following evolutionary psychology, a woman wants a person who will has good genes. She unconsciously relies on visual cues in a male, to find her partner. The most important cues are: signs of health, beauty (e.g. symmetry) and strength (dates back from when we were nomads, good hunters could supply their offspring with food; this often has to be proven by experience, which is why women often are interested in men older than them).

and men with muscles.

In their penis.

Quick someone find that video of that guy who swings around weights with his dong!

 

[Blow_Pop]

and men with muscles.

In their penis.

Quick someone find that video of that guy who swings around weights with his dong!

That sounds painful. and kind of disgusting....

 

[irrelevantnugget]

Following evolutionary psychology, a woman wants a person who will has good genes. She unconsciously relies on visual cues in a male, to find her partner. The most important cues are: signs of health, beauty (e.g. symmetry) and strength (dates back from when we were nomads, good hunters could supply their offspring with food; this often has to be proven by experience, which is why women often are interested in men older than them).

and men with muscles.

That's also under strength, naturally.

Quick someone find that video of that guy who swings around weights with his dong!

That sounds painful. and kind of disgusting....

Sounds Japanese.

 

[Ignignoct]

I talked to both the females who browse this forum, and they said that power, money, looks are sort of an initial hook, but they have enough self-respect to not stay if love never develops from chemistry.

So... Money/Looks/Power trump chemistry and love if you want a good streak of one-night-stands.