Except I can and I truly don't care how you live your life. I care how others tell me to live my life. I even made that distinction in my last post. Either you misinterpreted it or are intentionally missing the point. Considering I am still replying to you that isn't a sign of giving up. You're massively wrong on that front. I'm curious but why do you care so much about how I live my life? I'm 100% sure we don't know each other in real life. How I live my life doesn't effect or affect you in anyway and since that's the case I can't see a reason why you should care.ACWells said:The whole, "I am the only sane/smart one" is just too teenager for me to take seriously.Abomination said:Iconoclastic? Just because the majority of people behave in a certain way doesn't mean that way is the "best" way.ACWells said:How very iconoclastic, and counterproductive.Abomination said:They react quite positively and my life is better for it. I don't have to suffer fools and so I refuse to.ACWells said:Give that a try out there in real life, and see how people react to you. I'd say that standing on principle to be a social outcast is the definition of "edgy". By contrast, so is preaching that principle while not following it.
The only people I offend are those I don't want to talk to.
Not everyone has to like me, which is fine, because I don't like everyone.
Counterproductive? It is the exact opposite of being counterproductive, I get what I want, I get the lifestyle I want, I am happy.
Counterproductive would be me engaging in practices that prevent myself from being happy.
You can't say that you don't care, except when people say things to you that you don't like. Obviously you do care, a lot, you just don't have any better tools to deal with the situation and have totally given up.Bat Vader said:That's fine. You don't have to agree with how I live my life just as I don't care how others live theirs. I just find it annoying when people tell me there is something wrong with me or I am wrong for it. I don't tell others how to live theirs so why should I be told how to live mine?ACWells said:Do you understand that, whether you're choosing this or not, what you're describing would be a nightmare life for most people? Living at home, finding normal social interaction difficult... this sounds awful to me.Bat Vader said:I am the exception to the rule. I bathe regularly, I brush my teeth three times a day, use mouthwash, and floss, I have a job that I like with a boss that's cool and respects me. I live at home because I am saving up money to move out on and I am not in a relationship because I am not interested in one. It isn't that I don't need people it's that I don't need a lot of people. When I was younger I used to have many friends and I hated it. They always wanted to go out and do something and whenever I said no they would get mad. I don't like going out and hanging out. That isn't fun to me. What's fun is staying home and playing video games, reading, writing, drawing, etc.Loonyyy said:SNIP
I have very few friends and I like it that way. That way we can all hang out at the same time and I don't need to juggle my time with others. I'm a selfish person. I value my personal free time more than spending time with others which is why when I hang out it needs to be with everyone. That way I can get them all out of the way and the next couple of days just have to myself. I even told them that and they are all fine with it.
99% of the time the conversations I end up walking away from are the ones that that are entirely small talk. I hate small talk. Whenever a stranger starts making small talk with me I get the urge to want to bludgeon them with whatever I am holding in my hands at the current time. I have tried steering those types of conversations to stuff I am more interested in talking about and they almost never take the bait. The ones that do I talk with for a few minutes before getting drained and telling them politely I need to go. I am all for a conversation as long as it's either what I want to speak about or if it actually holds merit.
How about skipping the small talk and making an excuse to leave. From what others have said that seems to be just as polite.chocolate pickles said:Yes. You end up sounding like an arrogant, self important douche. Just make small talk for a while, then make an excuse and leave.
You can't say you don't care because if you truly didn't care you wouldn't be trying to get me to change socially. In the end I am going to win this because no matter what you say it isn't going to make me change how I live my life. You're a smart guy, surely you must see that. Again, why care?