Poll: Is something wrong with me?

[TheSolemnHypnotic]

Whenever I enter any sort of confrontation or feel any high level of emotion I feel really depressed and I feel the urge to puke. For example: not even 15 mins. ago, some one was trying to call me out on a comment I made in another topic. I'm sure they've moved on but I know it's going to bother me for a while. I'm kind of awkward so I feel pukey in social interactions as well. Is there a name for that? Is there a cure/solution?

 

[BENZOOKA]

Ask a doctor, not from random Internet people.

 

[martin's a madman]

This sounds like a mental health issue, perhaps seek out a psychiatrist?

 

[the spud]

You may have social anxiety. Although you shouldn't ask me because I don't know anything about sociology. I don't like it either when people call me out. There were like 20 people who strongly disagreed with my stance on a particular dead baby thread, and it wouldn't have bothered me had some of them not blatantly insult my character.

 

[Stealthygamer]

Yah see a psychiatrist dude

 

[MikailCaboose]

Just because a good answer may come once and a while out of any internet forum on topics like this, NEVER use them as a first source.

 

[MasterOfWorlds]

My gf actually has something similar.

It can be any number of things from simple anxiety to something more serious like a real psychological disorder. My guess is that you'd be able to get over it if you gradually allowed yourself to be in more and more social situations.

That isn't to say that you should go out picking fights or anything, but gradually go places where you know a lot of people are and just kind of walk around. Maybe bring a friend or two along and just chat. Eventually, you'll start to associate groups with good conversations with your friends, and the social awkwardness will lessen and may even go away with time.

As for the confrontation thing, that's something that will be solved by gaining more confidence in yourself, much like the thing I mentioned above. Once you're more sure of yourself, things will be a little easier in that area as well.

Of course, if you feel that it's a problem that goes beyond a mere confidence issue, I suggest that you consult your doctor.

I get the same way if I'm in a serious confrontation, but your average disagreements don't bother me. I didn't vote on the poll because there wasn't an answer that really suited what I wanted to say.

No, it's not exactly common, but it's not as rare as you might think. I don't think there's anything seriously wrong with you. It's probably nothing more than a slight anxiety problem at the most. Of course, I suggest you consult a professional if you think it may be something you need medication for or something.

 

[emeraldrafael]

Sounds like an autistic like reaction.

maybe severe social phobia?

 

[VanTesla]

Every person has their difference, that is what makes human unique. I would not say it's wierd for it is normal for you. Everyones brain chemistry works differently and that makes some people more stronger or weaker in different fields of thought. I can become more emotional over many issues, that I observe others to have more composure over the same issue.

If it is causing to much of a problem in your daily life then I suggest seeing a doctor and if he suggest seeing a psychiatrist for a mental evaluation, don't feel bad and be truthful in your evaluation. Never forget that you are not alone.

 

[Gralian]

It's just nerves, possibly brought on by an anxiety disorder. As someone who suffers from social phobia and an anxiety disorder, all i can suggest is that (depending on how greatly you feel this impacts your life, like causing you to avoid events or confrontations) you speak to a therapist. I worked with a process called Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, which is the most common form of therapy for this sort of thing, for over a year. You can look up information about it but the long and short of it is that you consider the situation that causes you stress / anxiety, consider your immediate thoughts and reactions to it, then list the evidence for and against those thoughts, and then end with a more balanced thought.

It may not be an anxiety disorder you have, but rather, just nerves. I used to be the same when i was younger. For example, the first time people disagreed with me harshly on a forum or i got quoted when i knew i said something controversial made me get that same queasy feeling you get when you're about to look at your exam results for the first time, but that went with time. I'd say just ride it out. If it doesn't go away after a few months of being here and interacting with people more, go and see a therapist.

 

[ajemas]

For the love of God, see a doctor. No piece of advice given out by an anonymous internet user is going to be as valid as that of a trained professional. Unless any of the people posting in this thread actually went to school for this kind of thing, you might want to ignore them as well.

 

[Laser Priest]

It's probably a form of social anxiety.

As many others have, I recommend seeing a psychiatrist.

 

[Jamboxdotcom]

Whenever I enter any sort of confrontation or feel any high level of emotion I feel really depressed and I feel the urge to puke. For example: not even 15 mins. ago, some one was trying to call me out on a comment I made in another topic. I'm sure they've moved on but I know it's going to bother me for a while. I'm kind of awkward so I feel pukey in social interactions as well. Is there a name for that? Is there a cure/solution?

I get that to a degree. Doesn't seem to be anything to worry about. I've always seen it as not wanting to be an asshole. I can still get into arguments and confrontations, but there's a certain line i can't cross without feeling sick to my stomach.

Also...

It's just nerves, possibly brought on by an anxiety disorder.
It may not be an anxiety disorder you have, but rather, just nerves.

what he said.

 

[Lilani]

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Ask a doctor, not from random Internet people.

Pretty much this. Unless there happens to be a well-educated psychologist here that is willing to spend a few hours talking with you, nobody here is going to be able to accurately tell you what is going on. Some advice may even do more harm than good.

 

[SilentCom]

Spaghetti and meatballs... it's what I had for dinner 2 nights ago.

Sounds like you're a little insecure about talking with other people. Perhaps fear of rejection or social anxiety (as someone previously stated). I'm no psychologist so if you want clear answers you'd better consult someone who is an expert.

 

[TheSolemnHypnotic]

Okay. Well I have always thought I might have Anxiety issues. And I have definately acquired a below average amount of sociall interactions with other people. So that would really seem to make sense. Thank you for your honesty and opinions.

 

[Chappy]

I feel sick when I post any comment as well and watch the thread like a hawk for the next few minutes to keep an eye on anything that could be commented and often editing the post before it's even been commented on with comments often bothering me long after they have been forgotten.

However I'd say we are both just shy and nervous people and there is nothing wrong with that however I am just anouther random voice on the internet do not take us for good advice - diagnosis.

If you feel there is an issue go see a professional doctor, psychologist or sociologist, if you are in a college or University you should have these professionals readily available to question about this situation.

 

[Aetera]

Like other people have said, definitely go see a professional, but it really does sound like you have social anxiety disorder. My mom has it, so I'm pretty familiar with it. HUGE fear/feeling sick at the thought of confrontation/being in the spotlight/talking in front of people/etc? Yeah.

 

[Avistew]

Sounds like social anxiety to me. A doctor or therapist could probably help best, and at the very least give a more reliable diagnosis.

 

[FalloutJack]

Whenever I enter any sort of confrontation or feel any high level of emotion I feel really depressed and I feel the urge to puke. For example: not even 15 mins. ago, some one was trying to call me out on a comment I made in another topic. I'm sure they've moved on but I know it's going to bother me for a while. I'm kind of awkward so I feel pukey in social interactions as well. Is there a name for that? Is there a cure/solution?

Okay, I'm going to rule out you being alergic to people, since I don't think that even happens. But I will say that there is some sort of nervous reaction there. Sounds to me like you are - consciously or subconsciously - fearing negative responses from others because of the sensation of diminishment that might follow from it.

I assume, for example, that normal conversations that are friendly and without much in the way of any stress work out, yes? Because it'd make sense if this were a stress reaction. My only major concern and confusion is the puking part. I don't think THAT reaction is common and I would see someone about that, at least.

Sounds like an autistic like reaction.

Naaah. Doesn't fit the pattern. And believe you me, I know a few things about autism and patterns. You don't have to be one to feel any sort of social anxiety. Many do, but let's leave such a diagnosis to a doctor.