I pretty much agreed with your entire post, very well written.Talshere said:For Tali this means stacking up the paragon point, while for Zaeed it actually had me abandoning the original mission in order to complete HIS mission to get him loyal lining up the renegade points. This left me happily out of karmas way by the end of the game, but had lost me several potentially interesting points I couldnt follow in conversations as I had insufficent maral points.
Except this - you can get Zaaed to be loyal while being a paragon (even if you choose the 'screw loyalty!' and go save the workers). You don't even need that much paragon points to do it.