Damn this is depressing, reminds me of Changes [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=um1HG9Rb6Dg] by Black Sabbath. As per the actual question, I don't know since it (luckily?) hasn't happened to me yet, and I won't until it does happen.
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How would I know? I've thankfully never been in the position of having a soulmate die.
I guess maybe if I met someone special? Even Polgara had Durnik...
I guess maybe if I met someone special? Even Polgara had Durnik...
I'd probably not want to live after that demotivational... incident.. I mean, soulmate, stuff like that, and then they DIE? I'd be too sad.
I am not quite sure what that has to do with the thread...Akai Shizuku said:
But I would not look. But if I found someone special I'd take the chance.
Huuuuh, now that is difficult to say the least. I expected "moving on" from a girl you loved if dumped or something, which I could handle in a snap. I do not hold strong attachments in a majority of cases. However if I met the girl of my dreams so to speak and had married her or been with her for quite a few years (say five to ten for a reference) that... that would be a blow which would almost certainly break through the armor in the sense I usually do not give much of a damn about things.
That is not something I am at all certain I could bounce back from. Perhaps over time but I imagine it would be very difficult. Now if she were murdered? Oh boy... lets just say the person who did so better either be in jail already or dead because I cannot say I'd have any level of sanity left, especially if it was a brutal murder. Not that I would harm others, just this person and harm is mildly putting it.
All I know is I would never commit suicide, even in this depressing a scenario. I would live on, how I would be going forward, well there in lays something I never want to know.
Edit: Thinking about it further, I do believe I could carry on with life, especially if we had children. However I probably would not date again.
That is not something I am at all certain I could bounce back from. Perhaps over time but I imagine it would be very difficult. Now if she were murdered? Oh boy... lets just say the person who did so better either be in jail already or dead because I cannot say I'd have any level of sanity left, especially if it was a brutal murder. Not that I would harm others, just this person and harm is mildly putting it.
All I know is I would never commit suicide, even in this depressing a scenario. I would live on, how I would be going forward, well there in lays something I never want to know.
Edit: Thinking about it further, I do believe I could carry on with life, especially if we had children. However I probably would not date again.
I think I've found the kind of love Soup is talking about, and if it ended with his death, I don't think I could go on living, let alone dating someone new.Amnestic said:
Maybe if we had small children... but even then I'd try to raise them on my own instead of 'finding someone'.
Gaaah why am I even contemplating this.
I honestly don't know. I've never been in a relationship, so it's difficult to determine how long it would be before I'm able to move on with my life.