Poll: Oh noes another relationship advice thread?

[DividedUnity]

Not really. Just a quick question. Its kinda advice i need right now. Is there any point in contacting someone you hooked up with while you were under the influence or should you just forget about it and pretend it never happened?

I kinda wanna talk to her and find out what happened cause I dont remember a lot of the night but then again I dont know if contacting her will actualy do any good?

Arg, what do you think I should do?

 

[Flying Dagger]

If you like her contact her.
Don't miss out on the chance of finding someone you get along with just because there's a chance of awkwardness.

Once you know either way if you'll get along, then make the decision to keep it on or break it off.

 

[Slayer_2]

I dunno, it really depends on the circumstances. I have a female friend who gets drunk, hooks up with some random guy, then prays that the guy never contacts her again. When he does make the mistake of contacting her, she gets quite hostile.

 

[DividedUnity]

When he does make the mistake of contacting her, she gets quite hostile.

Thats kinda what im afraid of lol

 

[EuanMack]

talk to her.... whats the worst that could happen? things get a little more awkward?worth the risk

 

[SomeBritishDude]

Worst case scenario; She's not interested, you never hear from her again and you go back to where you started.

I can't see anything really bad coming of it. The only way onward is up.

When he does make the mistake of contacting her, she gets quite hostile.

Thats kinda what im afraid of lol

If things [b/]DO[/b] start getting hostile just put down the phone. No big deal.

 

[DividedUnity]

talk to her.... whats the worst that could happen? things get a little more awkward?worth the risk

yeah i know that theres nothing she can do physically lol. but she does know a few of my friends and to be truly honest I cant remember much so i cant say if something did or didnt happen so theres that risk if she starts spreading rumors

 

[DividedUnity]

Worst case scenario; She's not interested, you never hear from her again and you go back to where you started.

I can't see anything really bad coming of it. The only way onward is up.

When he does make the mistake of contacting her, she gets quite hostile.

Thats kinda what im afraid of lol

If things DO start getting hostile just put down the phone. No big deal.

Eh second problem is I dont have her number. I was too drunk to write it down. the only way I can contact her is if I ask my friend for her msn

 

[Jamash]

When he does make the mistake of contacting her, she gets quite hostile.

Thats kinda what im afraid of lol

It that happens, then you can pretend it never happened (and thus ignoring the hostility too).

Also if you're afraid of offending her and causing hostility, then I think most women would be more offended by not being contacted and treated like a drunken mistake or conquest.

 

[SomeBritishDude]

Worst case scenario; She's not interested, you never hear from her again and you go back to where you started.

I can't see anything really bad coming of it. The only way onward is up.

When he does make the mistake of contacting her, she gets quite hostile.

Thats kinda what im afraid of lol

If things DO start getting hostile just put down the phone. No big deal.

Eh second problem is I dont have her number. I was too drunk to write it down. the only way I can contact her is if I ask my friend for her msn

Is that a problem? If he doesn't know about the dirty and you don't wish to divulge just say you got chatting or something. Sneak it into a conversation. Somehow.

And anyway, whats the block function on MSN for if not for avoiding problems

 

[DividedUnity]

Eh second problem is I dont have her number. I was too drunk to write it down. the only way I can contact her is if I ask my friend for her msn

Is that a problem? If he doesn't know about the dirty and you don't wish to divulge just say you got chatting or something. Sneak it into a conversation. Somehow.

And anyway, whats the block function on MSN for if not for avoid problems

Yeah I know you probably think im making this up but he does know. lol situation is FUBAR right now. i think im just gonna get her msn off him and talk to her. lol leap of faith

 

[Wadders]

You might as well, if only to set your mind at rest. Peace of mind is a wonderful thing

It's only awkward if you make it awkward, if you know what I mean.

Edit: oohh 2222 posts. That looks quite cool...

 

[DividedUnity]

You might as well, if only to set your mind at rest.

Peace of mind is a wonderdul thing It's only awkward if you make it awkward, if you know what I mean.

lol no its still awkward and im not the one making it lol or maybe I am hmmmmm

 

[BlumiereBleck]

If you miss her contact her.

 

[DazZ.]

drunk actions are sober yearnings.
talk to her.

I have a lot of drunken actions I most certainly don't yearn for.
At all...

However talk to her, don't see why you wouldn't. Worst that happens is she hates you, you haven't lost anything by finding out.

 

[DividedUnity]

If you miss her contact her.

I dont know if i miss her though. i dont even know if i like her or even know anything of significance about her.

 

[Wadders]

You might as well, if only to set your mind at rest.

Peace of mind is a wonderdul thing It's only awkward if you make it awkward, if you know what I mean.

lol no its still awkward and im not the one making it lol or maybe I am hmmmmm

Well talking to her over MSN kinda removes a bit of that awkwardness surely?

You wont loose anything if you talk to her, so awkward or not, bite the bullet ask her whetever it is you wana ask.

 

[Dogstile]

Not really. Just a quick question. Its kinda advice i need right now. Is there any point in contacting someone you hooked up with while you were under the influence or should you just forget about it and pretend it never happened?

I kinda wanna talk to her and find out what happened cause I dont remember a lot of the night but then again I dont know if contacting her will actualy do any good?

Arg, what do you think I should do?

RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN

Seriously, every girl you meet and hook up with while drunk is not a girl you will usually get along with.

 

[The Undoer]

Be the gent, phone her up, apologize for being drunk.

This is coming from someone who's never had a girlfriend though, so be wary of my advice.

 

[DividedUnity]

RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN RUN

Seriously, every girl you meet and hook up with while drunk is not a girl you will usually get along with.

yeah im well aware of that. but in the past I always run. it has got me nowhere