I have my hair in a ruffle-y, dark brown bob at the moment, though I'm thinking of cutting it shorter. I miss my old pixie hair

Don't see the appeal of 'long and straight', I think it looks terribly dull on most people.
On guys, I actually really love hair that's long, but not too long; probably just past jaw-length. It absolutely
must be styled and well-kempt, though. There is absolutely nothing worse than it actually looking like they've just grown it that length because they can't be bothered getting a haircut.
That being said, it's not just the hair that I (and probably the majority) of people focus on; it's the whole package. And we all know it's the inside that counts ;D